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I am finally feeling like this is something I can & should do for myself as opposed to doing it only for someone else. That is important as well!

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Thanks for taking the time to respond!

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We’ve talked on occasion but are in a delicate situation to where even if he does feel like I do (which I was really hoping for!) I think we are both afraid of doing anything about it. We don’t work together but are in a similar scenario to where he is trying to be professional and I am trying to respect his position. Tough to say! I am hoping he takes the lead & gives me a clue to whether I can really open up to him in that way!

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There is no easy way out of that at all. I went through it myself. To a degree, I think it is always kind of there because it is a situation that just isn’t “right” therefore (at least for me) I can never feel 100%. Does that make sense? It is now several yrs later and it never fully goes away but it does get better. I tell myself when the kids are grown I will finally be able to breathe and have somewhat of a normal life, not because of them of course, but because of the ex. That is not advice at all! But for me, it is the only way I can see to survive.

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I feel for you. I deal with that issue myself. I am not as motivated as I should be. I think that’s important. You have to be properly motivated or it will never come about.

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Is anyone able to help me with any insight into this matter? Thank you

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