Hi thanks for your reply i was at a bit of a loss yesterday… I have been in this relationship for around a year and a half my dob is 25/06/82 his is 04/03/84 we are engaged, he has a tendancy to be extremely critical of me even to the point of being nasty for seemingly no reason i have been in a cycle of abusuve relationships since i was 15 and i dont know why i keep ending up in this position my x has also arrived on the scene he cheated on me less than 3 months after he proposed and i have never really gotten over it i just dont know how to deal with it anymore… Your insight would be very much apreciated