Hi PSmith

Thanks for your reply. 12 years sure puts my 4 in the shade, I am hoping it doesn’t drag on for that long. You are right when you say I am worried about it happening again, and maybe that is the reason I have not entered into another relationship. But I think the biggest reason for not beable to move on is the lack of closure. One…[Read more]

Thanks Katana.

You are right about many things, the no closure and lack of explaination made it worst. And since he lives in the US and me the UK, I can hardly go and bang on his door demanding answers. I did the ripping up of photo’s and stuff and no it didn’t help. It just seems such a long time to be stuck on someone and I know he is the…[Read more]

Hi Linny

I am not a psychic but just wanted to add a few things. You say you act in front of him as if you’ve moved on. Is that a good idea. Will it give him the incentive to try and get back into your life if he wanted too. If we lie to others about how we are feeling, how then can we expect them to make the right decision when they have the…[Read more]