[Shane42]

Will start reading this immediately, thank you.

[Shane42]

Sorry I was a bit vague wasn’t I, sorry about that. I don’t use social media so was very apprehensive about it and second guessing the whole idea.
To clarify, I was after any advice in how to best begin in using the site. Was more of a break the ice type question.
Thank you I hope that makes sense..

[Shane42]

Hi and thank you for replying.

You are definitely spot on there, a lot of not so pleasant experiences influencing me subconsciously. I always try to think positively, but the negative is always ready to put his two cents in. I like to think I am getting stronger at seeing the ray of hope, but bitter disappointment usually is the outcome. Though I ALWAYS brush it off (or it just being hurried, I’m starting to wonder), and soldier on.

As a favourite character of mine once said, “learn to wear it as armour, then it can never be used to hurt you.”
That is what I have done with my pain and limitations, there is nothing I can not do, it just hurts.
I do not use a handicap permit either, I leave that to people worse off.

I hope that explains myself a little more honestly than I am with myself. I thank you for replying, was harder than you realise for me to post.

Thank you.

[Shane42]

Hi, coincidentally I’m a single father of two little ones myself.
Happy to extend an offer of friendship or so to speak lol..

[Shane42]

I just came out of a 12 year relationship, my attachment was unhealthy but necessary as I finally know had the strength to end it and now happy knowing I am now stronger in my self-esteem and self respect.

If you are in love with “each other” then it’s a healthy attachment. Takes a lot of work to maintain a long-term relationship, when one partners feelings change but the other still loves whole heartedly, the unhealthy zone sneaks in. Always communicate, keep working to reinforce each other’s bond. Don’t walk away untill you know with in yourself that staying is only damaging each other further.

Just remember no one’s life really depends on another’s, it all depends on you and what you believe you need, just don’t mistake wanting for needing.

These are my thoughts and the reasons why I had the strength the end it and take on raising my kids alone.

The negative energies and mostly gone now and both my children and myself are much happier.

Thanks for listening and hope it’s brings some words for thought. “Everything begins with a thought”

S.W

[Shane42]

Hi, sorry I’m 31 but still young at heart. Plus age does bring wisdom 😉

[Shane42]

Thanks, and also hello. First time ever signing up for anything like this, took a step out of the waters.

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