I am not a psychic,
I have a feeling you should move on. Theres the potential it will be on and off for years and that will be very difficult on bub. Theres room for councelling in both parties if its something that you wish to try but I feel like something might just be missing.

She will when she has had time to reflect but you deserve better than that (She cheated is the feeling I’m getting)

I have this feeling there’s someone else that you’re curious about but for some reason theres something holding you back. I would be leaning towards them more.. Dont push too hard is my advice

Not a psychic, but I have a feeling you will find a new home soon. Dont be afraid to ask for help or accept it when its offered.
I’m hoping the relationship stuff with the new person works out for you as I get a feeling the old relationship was very onesided. (Plus any hope is hope for us all) All the best xx