[HMason]

HM Wrote: It is not up to him to make you happy. Only you can make you happy. I am saying that I do not feel that your present outside love interest will make you happy in the long run.

On the practical side, it is never good to leave one relationship and jump into another.

A person should always take some time to be on their own to truly discover themselves and what they want form a partner or life in general.

With that said, there is never a reason to stay in an abusive marriage. Abuse is always a spiritual dealbreaker

[HMason]

Hi Eloh:

I replied to this but it is not showing. I am new here. I will type it again.

My feeling was to wait on the separation. My feeling was that this new relationship will be elusive. If you are okay with that and can live with the possibility that I see that the relationship with your new relationship will be temporary, then ask yourself are you strong enough to handle this?

As for waiting to separate…my intuitive impression is that in years down the road, about ten, you will look back with regret at leaving your marriage.

My impression is that your husband is solid and steady and a good man. I can not tell you whether you should stay or go, that is for you to decide. I can only tell you what I see.

With that all said, I do see you being happy again in the future after a few bumps in the road.

As for a way to leave without hurting your husband, I see no way to do that. He will be hurt. I actually feel rage will show first than pain. But life is full of hurts and disappointments among the goodness, so it is my feeling that he will eventually recover and find someone new.

To ease your pain, if you let him go, remind yourself perhaps that you will be setting him free to find someone who does love him.

The fact that you are concerned about hurting shows a good heart.

All my life people have told me I am psychic. Even a psychic told me I am psychic. I am not sure that I like the things I see. I do not want to see these things but I do.

[HMason]

Proceed with caution with this new man There feels to be a major life change that happened recently. Something that rocked your soul and caused you to ask a lot of questions.

I am not feeling that this new person is your soulmate. It feels to be a passing feeling on your part.

Once you proceed with this there will be no turning back. Wait. Because I feel this will pass and when it does I see you being happier than ever in your present situation.

All my life people have told me I am psychic. Even a psychic told me I am psychic. I am not sure that I like the things I see. I do not want to see these things but I do.

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