Psychic Advice - Get The Help You Deserve From A Psychic Without Losing Your Own Power Of Choice

Good psychics can provide a lot of help, but make sure keep your own power or choice.

When facing a tough issue, sometimes it's nice to have someone tell us what we need to do. Especially when we are confused, vulnerable, and scattered, it's relieving to have someone take charge of our life and point us in the right direction.

As a professional psychic, clients often ask me "Should I stay in my relationships or should I move on?" or "Should I keep my job or should I find another one?" or "Should I open that business I've been dreaming about?" Many people want this type of psychic advice.

When facing rough challenges, many people will be the first to tell you exactly what you need to do - psychics, your friends, counselors, family members, even strangers off the street.

But we have to ask ourselves, as tempting as it may be, is it really best to turn our authority over to another person in this way?

Telling Others What To Do Comes From The Ego, Not From A Spiritual Connection

When a psychic tells you what to do, this person is usually coming from a place of arrogance. There is an underlying message of "I know what is better for you more than you know what is better for you." When a psychic does these types of things, it's usually an indication this person lacks proper training and a sense of ethics.

When people step in and try to become an authority in your life, whether a psychic or someone else, they usually see themselves as superior. They are making a statement "their judgment is better than yours." They are positioning themselves as a GURU. Take a look at one of my favorite acronyms:

(G) - Gee!

(U) - You

(R) - Are

(U) - You

In other words, the best person to make decisions about your life is you. Rather than giving your life force over to someone else, you need to be your own authority. Regardless of how psychic or enlightened someone seems to be, basing your life-path on the opinions of others is a trap. It can lead to an unhealthy dependency on that person, a disconnection from your own personal power, and weak self confidence.

Maybe you are in a challenging situation because there is a life lesson that you need to learn. Maybe it's to learn to stand up for yourself more, maybe it's to learn acceptance of others, or maybe patience. Maybe making a radical step too fast could be too overwhelming for you, which can be more damaging than helpful. These are just some of the other reasons you need to be your own inner authority.

If A Psychic Can't Tell Me What To Do, What Are Psychics Good For?

A good psychic can help you "fill in the blanks" so you can make a better decision. But in the end, you need to make the decision, not the psychic. A good psychic can help you see the hidden details of a situation and what the probable outcome of a choice will be. And even more importantly, a good psychic can help you see what steps you can take to increase the chance of getting the results you want.

A psychic with proper training and experience can see these things better than any friend, counselor, or family member because they are using psychic based-insight, not intellectual reasoning or a "one-size fits all" text book approaches. This is the value of consulting with a psychic.

For example, if you are trying to decide between staying in a romantic relationship or getting out of it, a good psychic can help you see the true feelings, motivations, and behaviors of the person in question. They can help you see why this person is behaving in the way they are, what their plans are in regards to the relationship, and what they will likely do as the future unfolds.

Even more importantly, a good psychic can see what you can do to increase the chances of getting the results you want. Maybe it's a specific way of communicating with this other person; maybe it's a timeframe of when to push forward or when to step back. These types of psychic-based insights can help you avoid any further pain, confusion, and suffering and get you more on a path to clarity, inner growth, and sense of direction.

So when searching for or relying on the help of a psychic, consider these points. The time you invest with a psychic can be critical in achieving the direction, understanding, and sense of peace you deserve. Just make sure you trust in a psychic that empowers you, rather than belittles your own sense of authority in your life. This way, you get the help you deserve while at the same time, you get to keep your own personal power.