well I do know that there is no other woman we had originally agreeded not to even start dating until both of us was stable he wanted to get a car again and get his own place and get back on his feet.So I know where the where he was is It was when he was stable and on his feet and had things going good for him at this point he is down and depressed because of not being where he should be at 31 and he is back to square one.He wanted to take care of me and be there for me but at this moment that isnt possible.We kind of strayed from our lets just be friends to dating which we never should have done to begin with because we both agreed not to He is a really good guy and has the best of intensions and I think he is worth waiting for.At least in my opinion