Thank you for getting back with me!
First, we work together on a freelance basis and we’re more friends than co-workers, so yes, I know for sure he is single. His bad luck with finding love is a running joke with him and his other friends.
Second, no, I have done counseling on my own and he doesn’t want to admit there are issues and I no longer believe this is fixable. I can’t make myself feel something I don’t. Besides financial security, this relationship is not good for me. But at this time, until I become financially secure myself, leaving isn’t really an option.