Hi Kathy,
Thank you so much for answering my problem.
Unfortunantly as we are in different countries I have had no contact other than via the internet and as I explained that has stopped over night.
Your right in saying all I need is closure, I’m a little suprised that someone can be so much a part of your life and then just stop, no explanation given.
I am extremely suprised that he would chose to be so cruel.
I do think that eventually he will contact me again and I am sure I wont be able to ignore him as he has done me but I am very aware that he is unable to show me true care and concideration. Do you think that he holds any guilt for what he has done or feels at all bad about how he has treated me.
I think that is what I struggle with the most, I just don’t know how someone can feel ok about treating a person so poorly.
Thankyou again for your help and I would like to say the way you word your replies are very kind and honest.
Take care.