Yesterday my boyfriend Jason of 5 + months broke up with me. He did so over the phone because the previous night I had gotten black out drunk and we had a conversation that I do not remember. He was very unwilling to talk to me and did not say what I said but in one of his texts before he broke it off he said that if I did not want to be with…[Read more]

Kathy,
Thank you for the advice, I definitely don’t want a repeat performance.
Laura

Kathy,
Do you think I should give him a second chance?
Thanks,
Laura

Kathy,
Thanks so much for your reply and sincere words.
Sincerely,
Laura

The guy I was seeing got back into cell phone range after being out of town for two weeks and didn’t call or text, or reply to my texts after a almost two days of being able to call or text. The 3rd day I called him and he was being really quiet on the phone, I told him I didn’t want to end things weird so I wanted to talk because I was making…[Read more]

Kathy,
Thank you so much, It’s great to hear that from you because I’m feeling the same way!
Sincerely,
Laura

Kathy,
Thank you for your response. I really appreciate the feedback.
Sincerely,
Laura

Thank you for the good advice. I have a lot of thinking to do because I do not quite know where I stand with some of the points you brought up.
Thank you for giving me some things to think about. 🙂

Hello again,
It’s been almost two weeks since I’ve heard from Joey. The last time we were communicating it was thru text messaging, we were texting back and forth just fine. The last text I sent him was asking him if he had anything exciting planned for the weekend and he didn’t respond than or since. I have the feeling he met someone else…[Read more]

Hi Kathy,
We did have a plan to get together for dinner Monday and Tuesday last week but both days ended up not working for him because of a big job he had out of town, he owns his own company. I would like to go to dinner with him first and get to know him better before I go out on the boat. Hopefully we can go to dinner soon.
Thanks for the…[Read more]

Kathy,
He’s seems to be open about his situation, we live a little over an hour from each other so I know that is one thing that has prolonged us meeting. He also invited me out on his wake boarding boat the first day I met him and than a couple of times there after. I told him that until we were no longer strangers I wasn’t going out on his…[Read more]

Kathy,
Thanks so much for the insight. I know this may be a silly question seeing that It is about what may happen 2 years from now but, do you see the 30% chance of things working out being before the 2 years when he may be reading for a serious relationship? Would the chance of things working out be greater when the 2 year mark happens?

I wanted to reply about the guy I had asked about initially in this post. He and I are still friends and both single. The attraction between the two of us is still there, and I was wondering what insight anyone might have on whether the possibility of us getting together has changed since some time has pasted?
Thank You,
Laura

Thank you both for your great insight…it was all very helpful 🙂

Thank you for your input. Last weekend he- Mike – decided he needed a few days to think but didn’t communicate that to me, instead he didn’t call me for 2-3 days. I realized when that happened and other things bothered me, yet the thought of talking them through was too stressful to deal with, that I’m not ready for a full blown relationship. I…[Read more]

I hope i’m not dragging this question out too much for your liking. I have recently been invited to spend time with a person i work with helping her with living independently on a personal level. I was invited by her brother James to spend time with the two of them hiking, etc. This will take place tomorrow and I’m wondering if this is the…[Read more]

I greatly appreciate your response. I want to clarify some of what you wrote. Now, approximately what amount of time is too soon? I realize that jumping from one relationship to the next is not a good thing for me but sometimes i wonder what “too soon” is. Is the person that you see being in the background of my life someone that i know? In…[Read more]

Hi my name is Laura and i would appreciate help in healing from past abuse and neglect. I would like to have trust in finding a good man and deserving him also. Thank You!