I can see that you are not ready to let go. You will continue to love and need him and close your heart to other men. I would advise against it but you will not listen anyway and will allow your tender and loving heart to lead you. Eventually you will be “done” but you are a good and loving soul.

He is HARDENEd. His heart is hard! He knows you are good but he also has insisted into himself and he knows he is a hard, cold man. He will not let you go completely and he feels that there is a connection and you belong to him but he wants also to play around and deep in his heart, he knows you deserve better. I also sense your son is not his and…[Read more]

I did have a dream last night that she was found under a boat on land. However since I live at a lake, there are 100’s of boats in yards.

Yes, we do go driving and walking and call out for her. We walked property where there was a possible sighting

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Thank you so much! A lady is in the process of moving in and said a cat stood up and looked in her window a few nights ago. The odd thing is I bought furniture at an estate sale there so wondering if she recognizes scent. Also the old lady who died was a sweet and gentle soul I’ve heard. Got an ad in paper tomorrow, lots of folks watching, groups…[Read more]

No, Jim died in Paris.

Our habits do have an impact on when most of us die so eat well, don’t smoke or abuse drugs and alcohol and wear a seat belt. All of us will have good stuff and bad stuff in our lives too. I know this is not what you want to hear but it is honest.

1)forgive yourself. You know what you did wrong and how it hurt you and others. 2) tell him “I won’t ask for your forgiveness because I know I need to earn both your trust and forgiveness 3) be straight up with your loved one, do right by them and learn from your experience

It is 2 weeks she has been gone. Do you mean total or from now?