Thank you Kathy, so very much for always taking the time and effort to assist and guide me. You are 100% correct without fail I feel personally there is underlying stuff that has more to deal with him than I that kind of causes this knee jerk reaction every time. Sometimes I think he is aware of it and other times I don’t think he is consciously…[Read more]

Hi again Kathy,
I did finally hear from him again and things were going quite well for awhile as far as communication wise anyways, but after a disagreement communication seems to be lost again. I am hoping that maybe with a little time and space things will heal over and that all will be repaired. Thank you for all of your insight and guidance:)

Hi Kathy,
Thank you very much you are right. I got a lot of thinking to do lol.

Hi Kathy,
Thank you so much for your quick response, to answer your question to randomly run into him is impossible since we do not live in the same location literally lol, and as for a relationship I wasn’t looking for one either right now, but I was trying to be a good friend because honestly that is all I can offer anyways. Maybe our definition…[Read more]

Hi again Kathy,
Since it has been quite some time I was just wondering does this person still wish to be my friend? Or will I ever hear from them again?

Thank you in advance for any guidance on the subject that you may have.

Hi Kathy,
Thank you so much, I do know what exactly is bothering him partially, but the other part I didn’t know and I am very thankful that you gave me a proverbial heads up:) Wow! because without your help I probably wouldn’t of gotten it from him otherwise. I kind of sensed it a bit, but honestly I wished he would of just communicated that lol.…[Read more]

Hi again,
I was just curious about something and what I was wondering is, is he just not wanting to talk in general or is it that he just doesn’t want to talk to me?

Much appreciation and thanks:)

Hi Kathy,

Thank you very much for your help and guidance I really do appreciate it. I am just glad and relieved that he is ok and yes, I will adhere to your advice (although I admit patience is not my strong suit).

Hi Spiritual Vortex,
Yeah, what you said is true, but I never blamed anyone for my mistakes lol I do take responsibility for that fully. As for asking for help I really have a hard time with that one because I don’t know honestly who could help me out from time to time when I really need it because the truth is I am a better giver than I am a…[Read more]

Hi Kathy,

Do you think I can make it to last a year here? I am trying my best, but things are really tough though. What are my odds if I can hang in there till then (basically meaning hopefully things will get better)?

Thanks for your guidance in advance:)

Hi there,
Well things were going pretty much ok with the job for a little while up until recently when I am starting to notice familiar trends , which is some of the same problems I was dealing with in earlier responses, which are reoccurring again in the present. I like having a job (despite it all I still like this one), but it is starting to…[Read more]

Just wondering will I get to stay on this job awhile? I am still trying very hard to do my best, but some how at the end of the day it just feels not enough. I love working, but sometimes I just wish I wouldn’t always meet with such resistance at every turn. I am hoping to be here awhile, but I don’t know at this point. Thanks in advance for your…[Read more]

Thanks again you are right:) It is just taking me awhile to adjust I guess. I appreciate your time and effort:)

Please don’t think I am ungrateful for being given an opportunity when so many are still struggling out there, but the cruelty that I face on a daily now is just becoming to unbearable because it’s like I am constantly a target for some unknown reason. I work so hard to take so much and I am starting to get worn down both physically and mentally.…[Read more]

What you are saying is true, but sometimes it just hurts alot especially when you are trying to do your best. I am disappointed that some folks would act this way, but I am kind of used to it by now. I am really grateful for your insight and encouragement:) I am just hoping things will get better soon so that I can actually get to enjoy what I do…[Read more]

Thank you for the advice, but there is no way I could not work around these individuals because they are my superiors and I must keep in contact with them. Don’t get me wrong I like to work and I have been doing just that, but my tolerance is running thin with this kind of treatment (it is draining my energy daily) so no I will not leave until I…[Read more]

I was hoping to stick through this thing to the end, but lately things have been so negative it has been very hard to want to stay. I work so hard only to be unappreciated, talked down to, mocked, and most of all being treated like I am stupid. What I am thinking now is maybe I need to seek work elsewhere? What I want to ask is how good are my…[Read more]