i feel like i have no reason to feel so stagnant. is it possible that i have a psychic connection with him and i feel this way because that’s how he feels? He is in a really stagnant place in life and not doing much to change it, and burnt all of his bridges with his friends.

Thank you for responding and for the advice! I’ve thought about counceling, I have a psychology degree. I need to look into what additional training I would need to be a councelor, or what nursing job would allow it.
Thank you!