@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,
It is good to see you back in the forums! Glad things are going better for you! As for what is in store for you, just go about your life and do things that make you feel confident and happy. If you are happy within yourself, that positive energy will radiate to others. This could bring some very positive results in…

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Hi Kathy , hope you are doing well .It’s been a while since I posted here .. My health issue is solved and I’m doing great .. Things are going well at work too . However I’m not doing so well emotionally as I would have liked .I’m still single and just going on with my life. Anything you pick up on me right now and things to look forward in the…[Read more]

Hi Kathy,
I have been able to have the courage to go out alone during my lunch break again !! I went out twice this week and the feeling that I’m single is gone 🙂 I felt completely comfortable
going out and about.I saw many women and men walking alone and it
was so normal.You were right.Nobody cares or knows about my single status
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Hi Kathy, hope you are fine ? I wanted to say that I am feeling
much better. The feelings of despair because I’m single
are slowly leaving my mind.I haven’t been having my daily walks though.
I mean,in recent weeks , whenever I wanted to go out for lunch,
I ended up having co-workers accompany me. I haven’t been alone and
this makes me really…[Read more]

Thanks Kathy . I just want to relax and figure my life out .Romance/love is not something I want to think about for a while. I don’t want to have someone strike up a conversation with me etc because I’m way too defensive currently.. I need time for myself as I’m not well emotionally.Hoping for better times . Take care and enjoy Spring time you too .

Hi KathyN,you are right, time for myself is probably what I need right now.I just don’t want to feel the pressure of having to meet someone or having to go out of my way to make that happen. However I am letting go of all fears that I have about going out alone during my break .I love doing that and will continue doing so not caring about what…[Read more]

Hi Kathy , I really don’t want people to think that I’m single when I go take a walk . I enjoy being out in nature but this reason is holding me back . I don’t know why I think like that ,lol. I should work on myself and be ok to go out during my breaks not caring about what others might think.

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Hi KathyN , Happy Easter !! It’s been a while since I haven’t posted in the forum ? Hope you are fine ? I have stopped my daily walks because it made remember about my single status and it wasn’t a good feeling. I will start them again when I feel much better and not bothered about it at all. Do you have any insight / advice for me please ? Thanks.

@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,

Your co-worker obviously admires your taste in clothes and your work ethic. However, I sense a bit of jealousy. She somehow feels that by trying to emulate you she will succeed in the workplace. This constant effort to be in competition with you would certainly make you feel uncomfortable. You are just there doing your…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,
You knew what you wanted to do, but you were just too shy to do it! You already have an idea of how to practice making eye contact. Please don’t be so hard on yourself! I do sense that because you were not making eye contact with the guy in question, that the gesture of shaking his head might have been in response to…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,
Just go outside during your lunch break, if that is when you are likely to see these professional guys. Take a walk, enjoy it and also enjoy smiling and saying hello to people that you come to recognize. It may take a little while, but friendships often develop between people who meet this way.

Please keep us posted as to…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,
I think you have the right idea–just trust your intuition on these matters– Do you happen to know what type of businesses operate in this neighboring building? Is is all part of one large company or several smaller organizations? I have a feeling that these are professional people. These guys most likely find you…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,
I sense that this mystery man noticed you last summer. There was something that he liked about you, but he knew nothing about your situation, i.e.; if you are married, in a relationship, etc. Guys can be shy too! If you already know approximately when he will be outside the building each day there is no harm in looking for…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,

Although the future is not set in stone, I feel that there is better than an 80% chance that you will see this guy again! You already know that he works in a building adjacent to where you work. Although the outcome is not clear, I sense that there was something about you that he liked when your paths first crossed last…

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Hi Kathy N , I’m not sure if that guy is a love interest or anything . I’m just curious and would love to know if you pick up anything on him please ? He must be more than 5′ 6″ and is fair. He works in the building opposite to my work place . I first saw him last year in August I think. Our eyes locked for a few seconds. He even smiled at me but…[Read more]

@hope wrote:

@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,
It might not be so much of actually being in a “volunteer” position. I realize that you are busy with work during the week and are also busy on weekends. During the times that you are involved with activities is there a window of time which you can help someone? That means just going out of your way to be kind…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,
It might not be so much of actually being in a “volunteer” position. I realize that you are busy with work during the week and are also busy on weekends. During the times that you are involved with activities is there a window of time which you can help someone? That means just going out of your way to be kind to someone or…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,

Finding someone who you are compatible with isn’t something that you can put into a set time frame. It will most likely happen when you least likely expect it. Even if you feel like you have given up it can still happen! I still have a good feeling about what I have already suggested–can you find some time to get involved…

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@Kathy N wrote:

Hope,

Don’t give up–just give up trying so hard! I am confident that you will meet someone. If you can possibly find the time to squeeze in some volunteer work I have a very good feeling that you will meet someone who shares your interest. In this case I would say to look for volunteer work in an area that you are truly…

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Hi Kathy N , thanks so much again for your insight . I’m very anxious about that as I’m not getting any younger . Instead of things becoming easier for me , they are becoming more difficult . I really feel like giving up because of that. I’m feeling more and more like a fool believing I could ever find love . I appreciate your insight and honesty…[Read more]