I feel for you. You’re very courageous to be able to handle all those kids. It’s very admirable. I think there is a loss in this because of what has happened between you two. Nothing can change the past. Nothing compares to having your family together so I can see how you are at a loss of what to do other than hope he makes the right choice.…[Read more]

Thank you Kathy! I have been so desperate to find her!i have driven around, walked around, given out flyers, talked to everyone and doing prayer and meditation to guide her home.

He thinks the partying life is the good life. He is not real mature. I sense he has a chemical dependency issue too??!! He doesn’t think it is s problem. He does feel love but he is like a child in many ways. Easily distracted too. Blowing in the wind

He’s in a lot of pain emotionally. He’s really hurt about what he’s done. I think he’s feeling a lot of stress and is so overwhelmed by it that he can’t really stop to smell the roses at times. He’s not even really aware of the stress that is there, it’s just kind of like auto pilot sometimes, and that’s when sometimes we make the mistakes that…[Read more]

Allow them around you. They are not alone around you. There is a male and a female. They love you and wish to protect you.

It would only warn you so you could make changes.

I see that you would be burdened in a relationship with the guy that is close to you. Much more breathing room with the guy that’s far away. Though there’s always some tribulation with relationships, that is what I see, honey.

Love,

Izabeyah

No,

Noticed this older post and I hope you had a good resolution

You are disillusioned about your size. Nothing about you is unnatural. It is not that your fat or overweight. He would not even flinch at that. It’s all in your head. Relax. You found this guy. You’ll be great!

Love,

Izabeyah

And yes, my marriage did not survive because he would not stay in treatment and on meds.