Your question is confusing. Your relationship seems complicated as they say. To whom is the loyalty for? You? The other woman?
He seems torn between the two of you.

When you send love to the past or future, I believe he should be able to feel the love now. It also has to do with how open or empathic he is.

Love, Melinda

I’m taking an Advanced Mediumship course with Lisa Williams. Thank you for allowing me to practice.
Mediumship is okay, but psychic hits are much richer in guidance. They come from a different frequency/vibration.

Love, Melinda

Namaste @drowning2:

By parameters…it is meant that you set the standards of his behavior by allowing it. Sometimes people are victims of their own. We get in a cycle of victim-abuser. It’s a wheel that keeps spinning unless we choose to stop it.
It is not my place to say therapy is needed. I have seen times when it helps, and times when it…[Read more]

Namaste: The easy answer is yes! But it the highly enlightened who have these abilities. Past, present, and future are one timeline. There is no separation. It gets complicated after that.
What you CAN do is send love to the past. Find a quiet place, let go of all expectations. Touch your heart, take a deep breath…send love to the past…[Read more]

Namaste @drowning2,
I connect with your anxious heart. I see a man towering over you and shouting at you. You are scared and intimidated. This has been for a long time. You are exhausted from this, yet I see your heart is connected to his.
His behavior is his. It is his choice to be gentle or aggressive. Nothing you did in the past gives anyone…[Read more]

Namaste: Would you please post a new question on a new thread. I want new energy in the question. Thank you, Melinda

Namaste Brian: Her energy is felt strongly. She likes the chase, and the excitement of the passion. She tends to get bored sexually without the passion and romance.
I have a vision of her turning back to you and you extending your hands to her. You are seen in each other’s arms. Yet she soon grows restless. In order to keep the relationship g…[Read more]

Namaste Dearest One: Your heart pain is felt very strongly. It is time to heal. It is time for you to find peace within yourself.
The one whom you seek is seen in the distance. He sits upon a mountain top. He extends his hand to you. You rush to him. You are asked to have patience and asked that your passion be in check. Show serenity and…[Read more]

The wisdom that you have is wanting to burst out and assist in your life’s journey. This relationship is only a stop along your long life. He is a stepping stone to what awaits you.
Nothing he says is true. The hurtful words he said are not who you are. Release them. When you hear them in your mind, change the thought to a positive one, even if y…[Read more]

Check this article on the Lifeleap Blog: https://www.lifeleap.org/positive-thinking-doesnt-work/

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Namaste B:
The vision I had was a hunched man with his arms/hands close to his side and his finger moving fast…like someone planning. I also heard the comment, “He keeps his cards close to his chest”. This told me he is a burdened man who carries baggage he wants to keep to himself. He doesn’t want you to really know who he is.
I…[Read more]