Welcome to the forums!
We would be glad to try to help you. If you could please provide a bit more information with a specific question it will be easier to focus on your individual needs. I do sense that you are questioning if the relationship will last for the long term?

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums!
You are going through a difficult time right now but things will get better. If you start trying to solve one problem at a time things might seem less overwhelming. So if you can ask youself what is you primary concern right now and take steps to improve or resolve the situation, you will start to feel better.

Best wishes,

It appears that you both might have been caught up in the moment when you first met. You might want to be cautious because he could be already involved with someone. Since he was treating this as a flirtation and isn’t making an attempt to get to really know you, it might be best not to pursue this for now.

He could become available in the…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums lori,
your concerns might be alleviated if you would have a complete health examination. If any minor conditions are discovered and treated it will give you peace of mind.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums abbey,
actually, our future is not set in stone. We have the power within ourselves to decide which options we want to exercise. It is entirely possible that the person you are meant to be with isn’t either of these two men you are thinking of. Just don’t feel that you have to make a choice from these two. When you do…[Read more]

It is really important to take the time to get to know her before you declare your love. Through the dating process you will be able to see how your beliefs and ideas coincide. You are ready to love and to be loved in return. Just be cautious about moving too fast. If she isn’t quite ready to make this commitment, she might become frightened.…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!
You are trying to get your life back on track– it is important to remember that the future is not set in stone and we have the ability to control our destiny. Do you want to continue to be with a man who is also with another woman? Only you can decide when this is no longer working for you. He needs to make a choice.…[Read more]

Welcome aboard. Don’t be shy about asking for help!

You might want to give him some time after receiving your first message before you try again. You don’t want to appear to be too over anxious.

Best wishes,

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You might need to do something to initiate contact. A conversation built around things that interest the both of you could be a good start. I sense that a friendship will build and this will lead to the potential to become more!

Best wishes,

Elle,
welcome to the forums!
Actually, our future is not set in stone. There are several different options available to us and it all depends on the path that we choose. Each of your daughters will want to pursue the career of their choice. As they continue to mature you will see where their individual interests lie. You can encourage them and…[Read more]

He could have possibly moved from one woman to another. The second might be very short term as well. If you want to stay with this marriage, you might want to calmly confront him with the evidence. Then suggest counseling for the both of you to help repair the damage that has been done to your marriage. It will take time to trust him again.…[Read more]

Based on years of teaching and years of research, i would say yes. I would look into other ways to deal with the challenges you are having. Meds may be necessary at times, but over time, they destroy the body (not including the mind and spiritual awareness). A lot of research out there that indicates that people who meditate, exercise, and eat…[Read more]

Topazz54,

welcome aboard! I look forward to hearing more from you. Peaceful pic!

Draven,
welcome to the forums!
If you look to meet new people while attending events that interest you, or perhaps look into doing some volunteer work, these are good places to find people who share your interests. You will find someone– and you might want to think about how compatible you might be for the long term before you become too…[Read more]

You obviously have a desire to be reunited with him. There is a possibility, but you might need to work to make this happen. Are you comfortable with trying to contact him? It seems like a connection still exists between you. So don’t be shy about taking the first step toward contacting him.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums!
It seems that you have some doubts about this relationship? Perhaps that is why you felt the need to slow things down? You might want to use this time while he is away to re-evaluate the situation. You connected when you both needed someone and it is important to determine if this will be enough for the long term. So…[Read more]

Wayne,
welcome to the forums! You obviously want to reconcile. The best you can do is to try to talk to her about what went wrong in the relationship and let her know that you really want to work things out. If these issues are not discussed prior to a reconciliation, there is a chance that the same problems could resurface. Anyway, you need…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!

If you can first take time to completely heal yourself, you will feel more hopeful about your future. Love will come to you when you are ready. Each individual is unique, so it really doesn’t help to compare characteristics of someone new to those of someone in your past. If you don’t get involved with anyone until you…[Read more]

Jimmy,
Welcome to the forums! Unfortunately with today’s economy it has become increasingly difficult to find jobs. If you continue to apply for positions that you qualify or could qualify for, this should steer you in the right direction. It isn’t always possible to find a job that we are truly happy with, but if we can perform the…[Read more]