Now is the time to think of yourself and what you need to do to feel better. Is there a recreational activity that you have been interested in but never had the time to pursue? Once you start to feel in control of your life things will seem easier. It just means learning to be strong for your children and making plans to move ahead. You have…[Read more]

You might want to see if you can get help from a local community support center. You should be able to get some temporary shelter and support, as well as helpful conversation.

Best wishes,

Sorry you are having such a difficult time, but things will start to get better. Do you have family for friends who you could stay with for awhile? If not there should be a community shelter. What you need is to get back on your feet and get an average paying job. Once you start to get some money saved ahead you can make plans for a future.…[Read more]

Annette, welcome to the forums!
Actually our future is not set in stone. A lot depends on the paths that we choose to take. If you can imagine the road of life as a highway, there are side roads and detours. Also time in the spirit world is not the same as world time as we know it. So it really isn’t possible to predict when something will…[Read more]

You should not allow him to make you the victim of his frustrations. Being in a relationship means helping each other through the good times as well as the hard times. This is what you are trying to do for him. This is something that needs to be discussed. There is a chance that he will want to come back to you, just as he did before. That is…[Read more]

So truly sorry for the lost of your child. He will always be with you in spirit. There is so much that we don’t understand while we are living in this world. You will be reunited with him in your next life, if not in this life.

Many blessings,

He obviously cares for you and wants to keep seeing you — but unfortunately it doesn’t seem that you are the only lady he is seeing– he feels the need to hide your relationship so others will not know that he is seeing you. You might want to ask yourself if this is really what you want for the long term? You do have the opportunity for true…[Read more]

If you feel that you can no longer stay in an abusive marrige, there should be local support groups within your area where you could receive help. This decision should be made regardless of what you are hoping for from the other guy.

As for the other guy, if you rarely meet and he is away on business a good deal of the time and makes no attempt…[Read more]

If the guy you are with now won’t let you make your relationship public, it is because there is something that he feels he should hide. The other guy might be someone who you know of and just don’t know personally. He is liking you from afar. He considers you to be unavailable at this point.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums ida!

This is a good place to connect with like-minded individuals!

Sorry, but this guy seems to be playing games. First of all you are expected to keep your relationship with him under wraps. Secondly his female friend is telling you that she does have a relationship with him, which he denies. How much do you really know about him? You deserve happiness with someone who does not make your life so complicated.…[Read more]

What i sense is that this younger man has something to hide. You don’t meet often because he says he travels. How much do you really know about him? Do you really want to be with someone who fades in and out of a relationship? Even though your marriage has given you some hard times it is important not to confuse the two separate issues. Can…[Read more]

The economy is still very tight right now. It takes most people awhile to find a suitable job. Just keep trying to apply for every job that you feel you qualify for, or could qualify if the company will provide some on the job training. Once you secure that job it will open new doors for you. You will enjoy the independence that comes with…[Read more]

Kimberly,
it is so good that the girls will have supervised visits with their dad. He should not always expect you to bring them to him though. If he wants to see them he should be willing to travel as well. The economy is still very tight right now. It takes most people awhile to find a new job. I do think you will find something soon after…[Read more]

Vicky,
welcome to the forums!
Actually time in the spirit world is not the same as world time as we know it. That is why it really isn’t possible to give an accurate answer. If you continue to focus on positive thoughts of marriage and how you would like your future to be, you just might send vibes out there to the right person!
Best wishes,

Kellie,
welcome to the forums!
Actually, our future is not set in stone. There are different avenues available to each of us and a lot depends on the path you choose to take. With any type of corrective surgery it is important to obtain a second or even third opinion before proceeding. As for meeting someone, it is best to just let things…[Read more]

You might want to trust your instincts in this case — he seems to think it is all right to talk to other women while you are present. Yet he is jealous of the people you have contact with. He isn’t considering your feelings, only what he wants to do and what he wants you to do. You are your own person — you are not a puppet on a string! So…[Read more]

You do not deserve to be treated this way! Loving someone means totally accepting that person for who they are. He should not try to take away from your individuality. It is important to focus on what you truly want in life. You need to feel good about yourself. In order for you to be happy, you need total acceptance. So if you can tell him…[Read more]

Lydia,
welcome to the forums! We would really like to help you, but in order to do so we need a bit more information. It seems as if you are having doubts about your current relationship. In order to keep a relationship alive it takes work from both partners. It is about give and take and wanting to work things out. You must both really want…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!
It is important that you try to establish communication with him and try to resolve what went wrong in the relationship. A reconciliation would have to be something that you both want. If it was meant to happen, it will happen easily. If you try to push too hard this will lead to frustration. A calm attitude would be the…[Read more]