I think you and him need to talk and ask him any questions that are bothering you. Are you able to completely forgive him and move forward with him? If this woman is black mailing him then you may be able to inform the police or submit her harassment to someone.

You can increase your chances by focusing on seeing it happen and taking active steps to help allow it to happen.

Hi! Do you guys still talk? Sometimes people need space. I think the best thing to do is to allow her any space she wants while still letting her know that you are there for her and that you care for her.

Hi and welcome to lifeleap! I am sorry you are going through all of that. Lifeleap offers many free classes and I used them before I became a student. They helped me stop uncontrollable emotions.

Welcome!!

Welcome! I think that is awesome that you want to help and that you already are able to connect with things!

Hi and welcome!!

When did you guys break up? Have you tried giving him a little space and then reaching out to him?

He might just need time. If you keep it light and try spending time together on a easy level then it might help warm him up to the idea of you two getting back together.
Show him the girl he was originally attracted too:)
And when you spend time together so your best to be calm and confident:)

Sometimes guys act like they do not care because they are trying to hide their feelings. If you reach out to him on a light level does he respond?

Hmmmmm. That’s hard:/
Have you tried any of the free lessons? Or tried talking to Dale.
If you can love, trust, and believe someone then that is who you should go for.
I will say from my experience that guys make mistakes and are not always honest bc they are scared of ruining something, not that it makes it right though.

This exercise has helped me a lot when dealing with situations that are stressful

Thank you!!!

Works perfectly for me!