Hello. I’m kind of in the same boat. I’m 30 and have finally accepted my gifts and reworked my belief systems to allow them to be useful but I don’t know anyone that I can relate to! Most psychics I feel are women and my wife is super jelly lol.
On a helpful note I started using esp trainer by russel targ. The app has been used to help astronauts develop their clairvoyance with success. It’s free, simple and based on modern learning techniques to facilitate greater success faster. I love it. Check it out if it serves you.