Were you able to have any honest discussions with him prior to his leaving? How was your relationship during the years before you married? You do have a lot invested in your marriage.

It could be an important start toward sorting out your feelings if you could ask him the questions that you have posted in the forum. Let him know that you want…[Read more]

I am truly sorry that you are feeling sad. What is important is that you understand why you are sad and you want to do something to make life better for you. This is the first step and you have already started to do something about it. First of all, the relationship that is “on and off”– you do not need to allow this to keep happening. Often…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums! This is the place to share thoughts and life experiences! Please take the time to browse through the tabs at the top of the page. There is so much helpful information available. A lot of it is free for the asking!

We look forward to hearing from you often!
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Laura,

When these types of relationships are rekindled, often the problems that were present the first time around have a way of resurfacing.

Only you can decide if you want to give him another chance, but do you want to go through a repeat performance? He has already shown you that he is not dependable.

You don’t need someone who thinks that…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!

Please take the time to browse through the tabs at the top of the page. There is so much helpful information available.

Hope to hear from you again very soon!
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I sense that you already know what you need to do with regard to this situation. It seems like this guy never could totally commit to you. He was with another woman on and off during the time he was first with you. Then he tells you that she did not give him the love and affection that he needed. RED FLAG! Do you want to be with someone who…[Read more]

If you have not done so already, you might want to seek legal advice with regard to your daughter. If you are required to provide financial support, you certainly need to have this requirement made thru the proper legal channels. You should also be entitled to visitation rights with your daughter.

It is possible that Melissa has met someone who…[Read more]

Because you obviously want a child, you are likely to have one. Even if it is not your biological child, you will love it as if it were!

Best wishes to you!
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Laura,
I am sincerely sorry that this happened to you. It seems this guy is not reliable. You don’t need someone who fades in and out of your life. I sense that your intuition is correct. He might have met someone else or rekindled a past relationship.

In any event, don’t waste any more time on him. The fact that he said he would call you…[Read more]

You have good insight into this situation. You didn’t put up a fight because you didn’t want to hold him against his will. You also didn’t want to appear to be needy. There is about a 60% chance that he will try to reconcile, but it might be several months from now. It is difficult, but in time you will be able to put this behind you. You…[Read more]

Not sure if there is an easy answer to your question – I’d be skeptical of one. I’ll do the best I can to give you some ideas. In my experience, belief is a matter of aligning your emotions and thought. Some beliefs are put there by others, some we create ourselves. I think you can believe in something even if you don’t have a reason to yet. One…[Read more]

Christopher,
It seems that you have a handle on what you need to be doing for this school year. You should do well with your classes, just try not to worry about it. You know what you need to do in order to do well with your assignments.

It is important that you start networking now in order to get the kind of job that you want following…[Read more]

You might want to take a look at the information on this website about the Life Mastery Program. This program covers exercises and information that can help you achieve the results that you are looking for.

Best of luck to you!
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Laura,

I do have “good vibes” about this relationship!

Be happy!
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Some guys are just afraid of commitments, even when the girls aren’t even asking for one. These guys start to feel that they are getting too involved and they back off. Does this fit the pattern?

It seems that he really likes you, but just got cold feet? I sense that you will hear from him again, but you need to go on about your life and not…[Read more]

Did either of you attempt to discuss this? I really do think that you will hear from him again, maybe some months from now.

I sense that you really aren’t ready to make a commitment right now. Just take the time to do the things that you enjoy and be happy!

Take care!
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Hope,

When you are happy with your life and really aren’t focusing on finding someone, that is the time when it is most likely to happen! It is likely to happen when you least expect it!

Take care!
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Laura,

It seems that because you are already feeling this strong connection and feel that you already know him, this has the potential to be a lasting relationship!

Just enjoy this relationship and things should progress naturally!

Best wishes!
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Jessie,

Please start a “new topic” by clicking on the button at the top of the forum page. By doing this you will create a new topic where others can directly respond to your questions.

We look forward to hearing from you again very soon!
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Only you can decide what is best– It would be good for him to have someone to count on while he is getting re-established. He didn’t need to stop communicating all together–

If you were to try again, what would happen during times when things aren’t going well for him? Everyone has ups and downs in life. Wouldn’t you want to support him…[Read more]