Take a look@the people around you, see who you share values with, who you’re attracted to,who you enjoy spending time with, as well as future common goals,etc. This will help you recognize the person.

There’s nothing wrong with what you are experiencing and I’d be happy to help, but first, how old are you?

You did nothing wrong here, so no need to apologize. OK to share here. Just wanted to make sure you knew the nature of this community. I personally have a bitter/sweet relationship with western medical science. In some ways it’s great and can save your life. But some of the psychiatric stuff is over the top. Medicating 5 year old kids because…[Read more]

think it’s only English speaking here. Please use a online translater before you post.

I’m getting early spring, but that could change. Feels like there is a willingness there, but he may need a little encouragement, or especially some troubleshooting assistance. Feels like this is about money, not about health issues or some other reason. Try to make sure this is a good plan, otherwise you could get a repeat. Although, feels like…[Read more]

what is your question?

Sorry to hear of your struggles, although I don’t think this is support community for psychiatric type issues. Do you have a specific question?

I sense the connection is real, but I’m getting big questionmarks about his long term goals. Feels like he really doesn’t know what to do yet. Is he in the military or some type of official like work? I keep seeing that around him. Maybe you could give it a little more time, and if he doesn’t bite then walk away?

Has anything changed with this? We are now having very hot and cold interactions. There is also another person she has possible interest in does this change anything? I know my thoughts just wanted another prospective.