You obviously have a desire to be reunited with him. There is a possibility, but you might need to work to make this happen. Are you comfortable with trying to contact him? It seems like a connection still exists between you. So don’t be shy about taking the first step toward contacting him.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums!
It seems that you have some doubts about this relationship? Perhaps that is why you felt the need to slow things down? You might want to use this time while he is away to re-evaluate the situation. You connected when you both needed someone and it is important to determine if this will be enough for the long term. So…[Read more]

Wayne,
welcome to the forums! You obviously want to reconcile. The best you can do is to try to talk to her about what went wrong in the relationship and let her know that you really want to work things out. If these issues are not discussed prior to a reconciliation, there is a chance that the same problems could resurface. Anyway, you need…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!

If you can first take time to completely heal yourself, you will feel more hopeful about your future. Love will come to you when you are ready. Each individual is unique, so it really doesn’t help to compare characteristics of someone new to those of someone in your past. If you don’t get involved with anyone until you…[Read more]

Jimmy,
Welcome to the forums! Unfortunately with today’s economy it has become increasingly difficult to find jobs. If you continue to apply for positions that you qualify or could qualify for, this should steer you in the right direction. It isn’t always possible to find a job that we are truly happy with, but if we can perform the…[Read more]

Chandler,
Welcome to the forums! This is a great way to connect with like-minded individuals!

Best wishes,

You realize that you need to be away from her. With legal action such as a divorce and a restraining order this could be accomplished. You need to be strong and report any violations of these terms of agreement to the proper authorities. Don’t allow yourself to live in fear and misery.

Best wishes,

Sheba,
Welcome to the forums! Actually there are many successful long distance relationships that work– If you truly care for each other and you are able to be in contact by phone or e-mail, you will know what is going on with him. This might even make the time that you can spend together exta special. So just give it a try!

Best wishes,
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Bonnie,
Welcome to the forums! Just to put your mind at ease, you might want to get checked out by a doctor. Even if you don’t feel that it is a serious problem you will feel much better once the doctor tells you that!

Best wishes,
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So sorry that you are feeling so much pain and confusion. This might be a situation where you would benefit from personal counseling. I sense that your father is at peace. You might be feeling threatened in some way, however the issues might not be related to your father’s passing. Has seeing the numbers provided any benefit to you?

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You might feel better about this situation if you don’t try to combine the two issues. If you feel that you can no longer stay with your husband and decide to move on, your friend will be aware of this. Then if he is interested he will let you know.

Best wishes,
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Welcome to the forums!

Have you and your husband considered counseling? There is a chance that the quality of your marriage could be improved. As for your co-worker, are you certain that he isn’t otherwise involved? Sometimes people don’t want to share certain aspects of their personal life in the workplace. You wouldn’t want to jeopardize…[Read more]

It appears that he is playing some kind of game. He says he wants to be alone, but yet he doesn’t want to break up. He might be afraid of making a commitment. This is unfair to you. If you aren’t in a committed relationshp with him, you should feel free to date other guys and not wait for him. There are obviously some control issues here. It…[Read more]

Emma,
Welcome to the forums! If you become more involved with the things that interest you, there is a good chance you could meet someone who shares your interests. This could be something in the form of volunteer work.

Best wishes,
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Please post your question as a “new topic” in the forum. That way others will be able to respond to your questions–

thank you,
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Vini,
Welcome to the forums! It is possible that he is angry at something else that is going on in his life, but he might be taking it out on you. Have you specifically asked him if something is bothering him? If he is unwilling to share with you and doesn’t treat you right, you should not be expected to tolerate this behavior. You might first…[Read more]

It could possibly be himself that he is mad at. He knows what he did is wrong and he is trying to justify it within himself. So instead of assuming the blame, he is taking it out on you. You could sit down with your daughters and explain that you will no longer be living together as a family, but you and their dad both love them very much.

The…[Read more]

There is a chance that she might text you if she is in a “mood”. You might just want to ignore the text? She shouldn’t have the nerve to try to call you after behaving as she has. She could possibly approach you if she sees you out somewhere. You could just be “in a hurry” if you don’t want to talk to her.

Best wishes,
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She is not treating your right. Are you sure you really want to hear from her again? If it is her intention to string you along and then act aloof toward you in public, you do not need her in your life. I have a stong feeling that you will meet someone new very soon and be happy. It won’t matter so much about your ex anymore.

Best wishes,
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It appears that she doesn’t know what she wants right now. Do you honestly feel that you could trust her again if she does come back? She came out of a relationship and married you. When she married you could it possibly have been on the rebound from her previous affair? If she should want to come back to your marriage you might want to make…[Read more]