rose123 wrote:Well,I think this new job is an opportunity for her to move on and wants to learn some skills .
As I said she is frustrated,the changing status of situations,stability was not there.someone also did not want this relationship known.
I think deep down she knew this was not for her but carried on anyway.
Which is selfish,I think best…

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Well,I think this new job is an opportunity for her to move on and wants to learn some skills .
As I said she is frustrated,the changing status of situations,stability was not there.someone also did not want this relationship known.
I think deep down she knew this was not for her but carried on anyway.
Which is selfish,I think best way is to let…[Read more]

rose123 wrote:I don t know there is a new hope showed up;this mean either new joy of financially or someone new;she was frustrated of somewhat,emotionally frustrated

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Well, she was waiting to hear back from a possible new job opportunity as she’s been off work for a while but she told me she wasn’t worried about it. She also told me there…[Read more]

I don t know there is a new hope showed up;this mean either new joy of financially or someone new;she was frustrated of somewhat,emotionally frustrated

rose123 wrote:Is there a monetary issue involved?

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None at all. I mean, I don’t owe her any money and neither does she owe me any money. It’s so strange to me.

Is there a monetary issue involved?

Hi
How long you have been with him?

I think something did not go well or it was not what it seemed to her ,that is why she is asking to come back.she is on the look for going back at where she was;could she be codependent on you?monetary wise?
Even if she gets back to you and will be still on the Look out for something better for herself;I’m not sure if it’s to do with her not being…[Read more]

You are not lost. You are confused and frustrated. I feel your frustration more than anger. I see visions of your wife’s behavior. Her tantrums and shouting frustrate you and you want no more of it. She does not trust you.
I see this situation happening repeating over and over.
The new woman feels sweet and shy. If you approach her, she will b…[Read more]

Please help. The situation is getting worse by the day. In some ways, life-threateningly worse. We are both losing it,yet leaving is not an option. It is so difficult to explain. Our mental states are deteriorating so badly, we are clinging to threads. He refuses to be helped, he would never listen to me. He is too smart and that is working…[Read more]

Hello natascha,
I am sorry of what you ve been through.
I do not think there is another woman or something else,I think he is a very authoritative person,he wants to maintain the authority in the relationship;he maybe afraid of you might leave this relationship but at the same time,he wants to maintain the authority.because he believes he has…[Read more]