ask your grandfather to come forward. He says: I stand here wanting to ask why you doubt that I am proud of you. Things were not rosey when I walked alongside you. Yet, I am not disappointed in anything that happened or was said. We grow through trials and strife. Stand tall my dear and be counted as the strong amongst our family. Help those that…[Read more]

Haha yes! If you ever need someone to vent to, hit me up.

Namaste Mermaid by Night (Midnight Mermaid):
Reiki Energy sent: 4/8/2020 at 11:06 PT
Greetings to your shining energy. Two areas that stood out were your crown and solar plexus. The solar plexus shone brightly. You are pregnant with energy, and need to use your healing energy. Especially now. The world needs you. You are a healer. Do not doubt…[Read more]

I’ve found with my own stuff that if it’s causing me anxiety, I need to step back and think about why. Sometimes I’m doing things to please people or prove myself, or sometimes I’m involved in something I used to enjoy but now I don’t. Sometimes I’m expecting things from other people when I should be focused on creating my own happiness. Stuff…[Read more]

Right. I get where you’re coming from. 🙂
I’m still sorting through some ego stuff myself. That’s probably a never ending thing, huh?
The only advice I can give and try to follow myself is to never do things out of fear or sheer obligation. I try to shift my focus to doing things because it makes me happy or satisfied to do them. If you can’t see…[Read more]

Hey Latrease,
I feel like right now there is a foggy space between the two of you that needs time and a lot of communication to be resolved. Marriage doesn’t feel imminent to me.
I could always be wrong here, that’s just the vibes I’m getting. I would focus on having quality conversations with him and this will either strengthen your bond or at…[Read more]

Haha, yes, I definitely know what you mean.
I think people like us get stuck in these mires because there’s no clear direction for this sort of thing. There’s no formula for how to be who you were meant to be when you feel like a wackadoo witchy person 😉
We all have practical stuff to do to survive, but remember to invest most of your energy in…[Read more]

I’m so glad I could help, Elizabeth! That means a lot to me too. Thank you so much for the kind words 🙂

Oh pfft, earlier today when I responded to you, I can tell you now he isn’t disappointed or anything like that. He’s there to help you now, better than he could have in life even.
He’s going to show you signs he’s around, if you pay attention and stay open minded.

Ok. I’m still learning but I’ve had some success with this kind of stuff. Give me some specific questions and I’ll get back to you a little later today.

I’m feeling a strong yes, but that also depends on your energy you put out. Maintain a positive, confident energy. Feel like it’s already working out for you. I feel like things should click into place if you keep that up. It will be this or something even better, but you’re on the right track.

Hey there,
Yes, there are hidden things. But it’s up to you to decide if you should invest the time to find out what they are.
This is a learning experience for you.
You need to ask HIM how he feels so he can get the chance to tell you.
If we could go to a psychic every time we started dating someone and get a guaranteed answer, we’d never learn…[Read more]

Hey Brandijo,
Whatever you and your grandpa went through in physical life was meant to teach you something important. He wants you to let go of whatever is holding you back and let the lesson change you, the way it was meant to.
I feel like he’s saying you are inclined to get stuck in the way things are/were. It’s time to move forward. Whatever…[Read more]

Hey Beth,
I feel pretty strongly that you should look into twin flame relationships and see if this compares to what you’re going through. These relationships are intended to be intense (positively and negatively) and usually pretty difficult because they cause a lot of growth. It’s my understanding that they can also become very satisfying and…[Read more]

I’m going to build on what Melinda was saying because she had some good advice. 🙂
I empathize very much with the pain you must be in. Waiting for someone else to decide the direction of a relationship is agonizing.
There is always potential for a relationship to move forward when both people are ready to acknowledge their own issues and work on…[Read more]