Rose!

Thank you so much all of that was exactly what’s been going on.
Ultimately I feel I will walk away, because I understand love means something very different to me. And I am so happy that you wrote because this clarity at least makes me understand that we have differences, it’s not that he is a sadist.

I have lost my bitterness and…[Read more]

Dear Melinda,
I missed this wonderful opportunity but just in case I can ask for your help.

I live my Russian partner in a forest in Sardinia, I thought that we could have real love but his harsh ways have been detrimental the past 2 years and I always found myself doubting, or drifting, broken and losing my will. Is his love not true…or is he…[Read more]

Hi Melinda, I don’t like to asking for things, especially when I have nothing to give in return, but I am willing to try anything to help emotionally heal the man I love, me and our relationship. Could I PM you? The details are just too private, too easy for anyone to judge.

No, unfortunately he blocked my number a few months ago and I haven’t been able to get in touch. It seemed out of the blue. I hadn’t initiated contact with him since Christmas and I wasn’t harassing him. I haven’t been on a date since and don’t plan to for the forseeable future. ;(

Jillyce17,Between your information and Melinda’s you have both helped me so ..I have to realize that no answers is going to bring him back n im gna have to feel all this pain..there is no way around that..
Thanks again Jillyce
Meliss

Once again Thank you Melinda. All of your information has been helpful.I myself need to realize that no matter if my questions are answered or not that hes not coming back.
You have been awesome.Im so glad that i stumbled across this site..
Love Melissa