[Lou]

Hi Becky,
Did you want Fiona to answer your question?

cheers Lou

[Lou]

Hi Becky
? some things are worth waiting for.

[Lou]

Hi Becky
Im glad to help. I feel he does care for you very deeply but wont let himself show it. In time he will trust just be patient and by Xmas things will be different. Im sure of it ?

[Lou]

Hi
It takes a long time to trust again after you have been hurt. Your barriers are up waiting for the dame thing to happen again. To gain trust is a big step. You sound like you are doing all the giving. You have been hurt to. Don’t just be a councillor for this person or he will come to look on you as just a friend and councillor. I think he cares for you very much but is afraid what happened in the past happens again. You must tell him how you feel and how much you care for him. In sure in time his insecurities will go and he will learn to trust again
just be patient but don’t forget it works both ways.

[Lou]

I feel that the person you have loved for 15 years has a partner, a wife? Your feelings are mot reciprocated. You are now with someone you don’t love but its better than being alone? The longer you stay with this person the harder it will be to end it.they love you but know that your heart is not with them.

[Lou]

Yes i agree with the terms don’t need someone mouthing off at you when you just need advice.

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