If you enjoy being with him and he treats you well, there is no reason not to see where this relationship might lead. The fact that he bought you a plane ticket to go visit him is an indication that he really wanted to see you. He is keeping in touch with you on a daily basis. He obviously cares about you.

There are some long distance…[Read more]

It will depend on a lot of hard work. Don’t expect it to happen overnight. If you work in a field that you truly enjoy, this will be a plus. Working at something you enjoy or believe in will make you want to work harder, and consequently you will become successful.

Money that you earn through hard work will cause you to appreciate it so much…[Read more]

I am truly sorry that you are hurting. You have done everything possible to reconnect with him and explain your situation. You are correct in assuming that something else is going on with him. Do you have any mutual friends who might be aware of what this could be? He should understand that while he was hospitalized, you needed to continue…[Read more]

Have you been able to talk to him about this? Why does he feel that he was abandoned? It is important that he understand that you had to go on with daily responsibilities while he was hospitalized. You made every attempt to be with him when you could, you just could not be with him all of the time.

If he is not willing to discuss this, then…[Read more]

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Christopher,
Have you asked at your school’s administrative office if anyone has turned in a lost laptop? Is there a place where you could post information about your lost laptop and offer a small reward? A small reward could be incentive for someone to return it with no questions asked.

You might do well not to plan to make any purchases that…[Read more]

I am truly sorry about the loss of your father. You must take time for yourself to grieve. This is a natural part of the healing process. After the memorial service you are likely to begin to come to peace with this, though you will continue to feel the loss. In time you will remember the happier times, before your father became ill. Don’t…[Read more]

If you seem to have a connection and share similar interests, then you could take that opportunity to get to know them better. Then you will have a better idea of which brother is the one who is best suited for you.

Best of luck with this situation–
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Were you able to have any honest discussions with him prior to his leaving? How was your relationship during the years before you married? You do have a lot invested in your marriage.

It could be an important start toward sorting out your feelings if you could ask him the questions that you have posted in the forum. Let him know that you want…[Read more]

I am truly sorry that you are feeling sad. What is important is that you understand why you are sad and you want to do something to make life better for you. This is the first step and you have already started to do something about it. First of all, the relationship that is “on and off”– you do not need to allow this to keep happening. Often…[Read more]

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Laura,

When these types of relationships are rekindled, often the problems that were present the first time around have a way of resurfacing.

Only you can decide if you want to give him another chance, but do you want to go through a repeat performance? He has already shown you that he is not dependable.

You don’t need someone who thinks that…[Read more]

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I sense that you already know what you need to do with regard to this situation. It seems like this guy never could totally commit to you. He was with another woman on and off during the time he was first with you. Then he tells you that she did not give him the love and affection that he needed. RED FLAG! Do you want to be with someone who…[Read more]

If you have not done so already, you might want to seek legal advice with regard to your daughter. If you are required to provide financial support, you certainly need to have this requirement made thru the proper legal channels. You should also be entitled to visitation rights with your daughter.

It is possible that Melissa has met someone who…[Read more]

Because you obviously want a child, you are likely to have one. Even if it is not your biological child, you will love it as if it were!

Best wishes to you!
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Laura,
I am sincerely sorry that this happened to you. It seems this guy is not reliable. You don’t need someone who fades in and out of your life. I sense that your intuition is correct. He might have met someone else or rekindled a past relationship.

In any event, don’t waste any more time on him. The fact that he said he would call you…[Read more]

You have good insight into this situation. You didn’t put up a fight because you didn’t want to hold him against his will. You also didn’t want to appear to be needy. There is about a 60% chance that he will try to reconcile, but it might be several months from now. It is difficult, but in time you will be able to put this behind you. You…[Read more]

Not sure if there is an easy answer to your question – I’d be skeptical of one. I’ll do the best I can to give you some ideas. In my experience, belief is a matter of aligning your emotions and thought. Some beliefs are put there by others, some we create ourselves. I think you can believe in something even if you don’t have a reason to yet. One…[Read more]

Christopher,
It seems that you have a handle on what you need to be doing for this school year. You should do well with your classes, just try not to worry about it. You know what you need to do in order to do well with your assignments.

It is important that you start networking now in order to get the kind of job that you want following…[Read more]