Tony,
Welcome to the forums! It is important right now that you ask yourself what it is that you would really like to be doing? There might be something that you can do to start this in motion– but it is important that you act on it now.

Best wishes,
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Hey Christopher,
It is really good to hear from you. You certainly have made some good contacts in the music industry. I know you will keep trying. Actually you are probably living close to a very good area for these contacts. Before you actually move to another area there are so many things to consider. First– the cost of living. You…[Read more]

Don’t be afraid– think of your ability as a gift! A really great place to start to put this ability in perspective would be to check into the Life Mastery Program. The program is outlined on this website. I am a graduate student of this program. I too have abilities that I did not understand. It is a matter of learning how to use these…[Read more]

Right now it is important to ask yourself a major question. How is he making you feel about yourself? Is he willing to try to make the marriage work? The efforts need to be made by him as well.

Best wishes,

Hank,
Welcome to the forums! Really great articles! Hope to hear from you often!

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Please keep in touch to let us know how you are doing. We are here to help–

Best wishes,
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He is dragging you down– even while he is absent from your life. The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on with your life. If you can secure some kind of part time work to get you ahead financially, and then also take the courses that you need, this will get you going in the right direction.

Trying to contact him now would only lead…[Read more]

This guy is playing mind games– he is fearful of a long-term commitment. You deserve to feel good about yourself. You have some good work skills. Keep applying for what would be a good paying job. Do you really want to waste the negative energy that would be involved in a law suit? It could take years to even come to court.

Once you rebuild…[Read more]

Kimmi,
It is difficult, but you know that you need to keep applying for jobs that you qualify for, or could qualify for. You have some very good qualifications. I sense that you will have some meaningful opportunities by early fall.

Best wishes,
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Actually, the future is not set in stone. A lot depends on the road you choose. If you were to get back together with your ex, the problems that you experienced in the past could resurface. What type of career have you chosen? You should do well in a field that you truly enjoy. Making sure that you have secure employment should be your next…[Read more]

Kimmi,
Welcome to the forums! We would be better able to help you if you could provide a bit more information about the direction you would like to take regarding your lifestyle.

The future isn’t set it stone. There are various different options available and a lot depends on the path you choose to take.

Best wishes,

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It is often said that the best way to have a friend is to be one. You have tried very hard, but it seems that he only wants a friend when he needs one. From that perspective there is a chance that he might contact you in the future. Do you really want that kind of a one-sided friendship? You are a kind an caring person and there are many other…[Read more]

He knows that he acted like a jerk! This is kind of a guy thing — he most likely wishes he hadn’t acted the way he did, but he feels like the door is closed to communication. He would have to work up a lot of courage to call you after all this time. I still advise you against trying to contact him. I sense that he really doesn’t want to be in…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,
It is really good to hear from you. What you are setting you mind to do right now will actually be the best for right now. Once you secure that full time job you can then think about expanding your planning for future goals, etc. I sense that you will need to work at something more mundane for a short period of time in order to…[Read more]

Felicia,
Our future is not set in stone. There are various different paths available and a lot depends on which path you choose. There is a possibility that you could stay working within the educational system, but you could move to an administrative position. Many school districts have positions known as “program specialists”. Teachers…[Read more]

Felicia,
I sense that you are a very caring and giving person. Perhaps it is just the particular program that is getting you down? Would it be possible to transfer to a different grade level of students? You have the gift for teaching and a different setting could make a really big difference. The new school year is rapidly approaching, but…[Read more]

Could you possibly write him a letter? You would have the opportunity to express your feelings as well as attempt to repair this relationship. He would have the opportunity to think about this. You would also know that you have taken an important step to make contact. He might not want to discuss what has happened in the past, but he might be…[Read more]

So if you both work for the same company but work in different departments, there might not be a problem if you eventually get together. You might want to make sure there aren’t any underlying reasons for his hesitation to get to know you better. He could possibly be involved with someone right now. If this is the case, it most likely will not…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!

It is great that you are taking the time to read through the topics on the website. There is so much valuable information here!

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There appears to be an obvious attaction on both sides. Also, a bit of shyness. When it is obvious that you have both made eye contact, you might want to initiate a brief conversation? It is important to remember that the future is not set in stone. What you can do is try to get to know him and see where this might lead.

Best wishes,
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