It seems that you are both focusing on different issues in your lives right now. It would be a good time to evaluate to make a decision if you really want to come together for the long term. Future goals might be weighing heavily in your relationship right now.

Best wishes,

Isabella,
we would be very glad to try to help answer your questions. However, you will need to be at least 18 years old. So please come back to visit the forums when you reach that age.

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Welcome to the forums!
Since you still have feelings and concerns about your ex, is there any way you send him an e-mail or letter through the mail? This wouldn’t put him on the spot and he would have time to decide how he wishes to respond. You might feel better if you could at least keep a friendship alive? As for the new guy, he might have…[Read more]

Sandi, welcome to the forums!
It seems that he is pulling back because he has the fear of getting involved with someone again too quickly. There may be some issues from his past that he needs to deal with. Since all was well with your casual relationship, you are likely to hear from him when he gets his own personal issues resolved.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums!
We would really like to try to help you, but could you please provide a bit more information? If you can post a specific question it will be easier to focus on the situation.
Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums!
Actually, our futures are not set in stone. Much depends on the paths we choose to take. You might want to ask youself how you would expect to strengthen your relationship with this man? What can you contribute to a meaningful relationship? Also does he share your feelings? Once you consider these aspects your initial…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!
You might not get this particular job, but you have a good chance at a similar position. The position you ultimately get might be a better fit for you in the long run.

As for finding your mother, it is possible that she has a different last name at this time. There are many ways to locate individuals via the internet.…[Read more]

Now is the time to think of yourself and what you need to do to feel better. Is there a recreational activity that you have been interested in but never had the time to pursue? Once you start to feel in control of your life things will seem easier. It just means learning to be strong for your children and making plans to move ahead. You have…[Read more]

You might want to see if you can get help from a local community support center. You should be able to get some temporary shelter and support, as well as helpful conversation.

Best wishes,

Sorry you are having such a difficult time, but things will start to get better. Do you have family for friends who you could stay with for awhile? If not there should be a community shelter. What you need is to get back on your feet and get an average paying job. Once you start to get some money saved ahead you can make plans for a future.…[Read more]

Annette, welcome to the forums!
Actually our future is not set in stone. A lot depends on the paths that we choose to take. If you can imagine the road of life as a highway, there are side roads and detours. Also time in the spirit world is not the same as world time as we know it. So it really isn’t possible to predict when something will…[Read more]

You should not allow him to make you the victim of his frustrations. Being in a relationship means helping each other through the good times as well as the hard times. This is what you are trying to do for him. This is something that needs to be discussed. There is a chance that he will want to come back to you, just as he did before. That is…[Read more]

So truly sorry for the lost of your child. He will always be with you in spirit. There is so much that we don’t understand while we are living in this world. You will be reunited with him in your next life, if not in this life.

Many blessings,

He obviously cares for you and wants to keep seeing you — but unfortunately it doesn’t seem that you are the only lady he is seeing– he feels the need to hide your relationship so others will not know that he is seeing you. You might want to ask yourself if this is really what you want for the long term? You do have the opportunity for true…[Read more]

If you feel that you can no longer stay in an abusive marrige, there should be local support groups within your area where you could receive help. This decision should be made regardless of what you are hoping for from the other guy.

As for the other guy, if you rarely meet and he is away on business a good deal of the time and makes no attempt…[Read more]

If the guy you are with now won’t let you make your relationship public, it is because there is something that he feels he should hide. The other guy might be someone who you know of and just don’t know personally. He is liking you from afar. He considers you to be unavailable at this point.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums ida!

This is a good place to connect with like-minded individuals!

Sorry, but this guy seems to be playing games. First of all you are expected to keep your relationship with him under wraps. Secondly his female friend is telling you that she does have a relationship with him, which he denies. How much do you really know about him? You deserve happiness with someone who does not make your life so complicated.…[Read more]

What i sense is that this younger man has something to hide. You don’t meet often because he says he travels. How much do you really know about him? Do you really want to be with someone who fades in and out of a relationship? Even though your marriage has given you some hard times it is important not to confuse the two separate issues. Can…[Read more]

The economy is still very tight right now. It takes most people awhile to find a suitable job. Just keep trying to apply for every job that you feel you qualify for, or could qualify if the company will provide some on the job training. Once you secure that job it will open new doors for you. You will enjoy the independence that comes with…[Read more]