It is important not to make him feel pressured. Just be there for him — and it would be best to not consider starting a family at this point. There is a chance he could feel trapped if that were to happen. Since the future is not set in stone, it really isn’t possible to predict when something might actually happen. Perhaps the long distance…[Read more]

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Please take the time to review the inormation in each tab. You might want to consider the life mastery program to learn how to enhance your skills.

If you make contact with your sister and let her know that you want to work on fixing what went wrong in your relationship, there is a very good chance that you will have an immediate reconciliation with her.

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Annie,
this might be worth pursuing — since there was an attraction on both sides that had never been explored due to you both being married to others. You are both at a point in your lives where you understand responsibilities and why you can’t be together right now. You have the maturity to handle a long distance relationship. I wouldn’t…[Read more]

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Actually, the future is not set in stone. A lot depends on the paths that we choose to take as individuals. If you were in a relationship that you feel was worth keeping, then it might be worth it to try to discuss the situation with him to find out what went wrong, or if it could be fixed. If this was just a brief encounter or flirtation then…[Read more]

Actually, the future is not set in stone. There are various possibilities of who might become your future partner. It all depends on who you eventually choose. If you continue to reflect a positive attitude you are likely to attract someone of the same nature. Be watchful for individuals who exhibit the qualities you are searching for.

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Sorry that you are feeling so sad right now, but it is fortunuate that you realized something was very wrong with this relationship before you got too far into it. There could be something from his past that he feels the need to hide. Anyway, you are wise to just let this go and open yourself up to meeting new…[Read more]

Emily,
since you have a good job, that is a definite start for your independence. You have decided not to subject yourself to any more emotional abuse. Stay strong and you will be fine!

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Actually your birthdate doesn’t really factor into the romantic situation. However, if you go about your daily routine exhibiting a peaceful and positive attitude you stand a good chance of attracting someone who is looking for those qualities–

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It seems as if your guy is demonstrating serious mood swings. The best way to find out what is happening with him is to ask him to discuss the situation. You need to know what is wrong before you can even try to fix it. If he is being unfaithful, then you need to ask yourself if that is something you can tolerate in…[Read more]

The job market is still very tight due to the economy. If you continue to apply for any job that you feel you are qualified, or could become qualified — then try for it! Sometimes employers will accept the willingness to learn over more experience. Continue to reflect a positive attitude and flexibility at each interview. There is a very good…[Read more]

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If your daily contact is on friendly terms, could you ask to discuss the issues to determine what went wrong in your relationship? If you are both willing to make adjustments there is a chance you could reconcile. Asking to talk about the situation with him could help to determine his true feelings. You both need to want…[Read more]

I sense that you are having mixed emotions about this. There is a small part of you that would like to hear from him, yet you are feeling that it was not a solid relationship for the long term. There is a chance that he might contact you at some point, it might not be in the immediate future. If you were to try again it might result in having…[Read more]

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I sense that raymond is feeling that because he has a girlfriend that he shouldn’t be talking to other girls. Perhaps his girlfriend might not understand that there has been a long standing friendship? For now if you just give it some time, there is a chance that this new relationship might not last for the long term.…[Read more]

You obviously want to help to heal people. If you can pursue a career path that motivates and interests you it will lead to personal fulfillment.

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Actually, our future is not set in stone so it really isn’t possible to predict when you will meet that special someone. You shouldn’t have to be searching though, the person is likely to come to you when you least expect it!

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Would it be possible to talk to him about your feelings? Could you try to determine what went wrong in your relationship? If you are both willing to work on these issues there is a chance that you could reconcile.

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I do sense that there will be a reconciliation. You can start by apologizing to your sister and assuring her that what happened before will not happen again. She misses you too! The rebuilding of your relationship might start out slow, but it will continue to strengthen.

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Because your relationship has been off and on repeatedly, this seems to be a pattern. The things that initially drew you together bring you back together. The issues that caused problems tend to resurface after you get back together. Is this what you want for the long term? Even if you were to get married there is no…[Read more]