Can you start out by just being a good friend? Someone she can talk to — and possibly come to for advice? The best way to get to know her and what she is thinking is to have more interaction. Then you will know how to proceed. Don’t let the age difference deter you. She might appreciate a mature guy!

Best Wishes!

Sorry to hear things are so rough. I will say with confidence you do have options. You aren’t stuck. It will take time and hard work on your part, but happiness with lack of med can be accomplished. Here’s a good video: Alternatives To Pharmaceuticals. I’d really suggest getting into a type of meditation which allows you to get control over your…[Read more]

Thanks for sharing!!!!

When I looked at it, got a sense it was a form without a body.

Reality is highly populated with entities, even though most people are oblivious to it. Fortunately, most of the stuff out there is friendly, although you will encounter a lot of mischievous behavior, which I what I sensed about your encounter.

It’s not too difficult to reach a…[Read more]

What is your specific question? That might help if you want to get help here.

I agree. Sometimes, implying that you understand can be disastrous. For example, if you say that to someone who is suicidal, things could go really bad.

For tough situations, you can try saying “I can only imagine what it must be like” and even tell them you can’t understand. But you are still being supportive, you are still establishing…[Read more]

Please see this guide. It should help you:

should you trust a psychic

There’s nothing wrong with what you are experiencing and I’d be happy to help, but first, how old are you?

You did nothing wrong here, so no need to apologize. OK to share here. Just wanted to make sure you knew the nature of this community. I personally have a bitter/sweet relationship with western medical science. In some ways it’s great and can save your life. But some of the psychiatric stuff is over the top. Medicating 5 year old kids because…[Read more]

think it’s only English speaking here. Please use a online translater before you post.

I’m getting early spring, but that could change. Feels like there is a willingness there, but he may need a little encouragement, or especially some troubleshooting assistance. Feels like this is about money, not about health issues or some other reason. Try to make sure this is a good plan, otherwise you could get a repeat. Although, feels like…[Read more]

what is your question?

Sorry to hear of your struggles, although I don’t think this is support community for psychiatric type issues. Do you have a specific question?

I sense the connection is real, but I’m getting big questionmarks about his long term goals. Feels like he really doesn’t know what to do yet. Is he in the military or some type of official like work? I keep seeing that around him. Maybe you could give it a little more time, and if he doesn’t bite then walk away?

I think sometimes if someone else is in your personal space, like at work, this can result in you picking up something. Otherwise, there is usually something tying you and the other person together. It could be curiosity or it could be some type of identification.

I get a sense he can hear you some, but he is also still coming to grips with what has happened. Not that he’s suffering, just still try to understand where he is and how everything works. It might take a while to get solid messages from him. But, I do get stubborn sense that he wants you to start focusing more on the rest of your life and the…[Read more]