[EliseG]

My psychic sense is it’s a classic hit and run. I’m sorry to say it. I’m not getting that he cares about you yet on a deeper level. I would suggest working on really keeping those boundaries up. You get close to people fast, so maybe boundaries might help to protect you. Set some stronger conditions before you hop in the sack. Also, I keep seeing something involving fashion or retail around you. What’s that about?

[EliseG]

I’m not sensing anything like that when I focus into your life, although, I did pick up some type of imbalance within you, maybe relating to pills. But I would be very careful about these feelings. These feelings can turn out to be self fulfilling prophesies. I remember Dale wrote an article about this which stood out in my mind. I just looked and it’s about a girl named vicki. You can see it here:

https://www.lifeleap.org/positive-thinking-doesnt-work/

I would take whatever steps you needed to change that deep feeling within you. There is training here, the Mastery Program, which you can use. You might find something else. But you can control it. Don’t let it eat away at you like cancer until it actually manifests into something. Also, on the physical level, don’t be shy about learning to defend yourself. You don’t have to be a victim.

[EliseG]

I’m not that good with cheating questions. Always makes me sick to my stomach. Sounds like something you need to hire a P.I. for before you make any permanent decisions. Psychic insights are helpful, but you want to know the absolute truth before doing something serious.

[EliseG]

what’s your question?

[EliseG]

What a tragedy. I’m so sorry for you. The future isn’t cut into stone, so don’t let anybody tell you what’s going to happen. My psychic voice tells me that you need to pray, pray, pray. If you don’t how, get somebody to teach you. Also, get involved with a church with some real soul and get them to pray for you too. There’s great power in numbers. Pray over and over. Work with the universe and make it happen. Miracles do exist!

[EliseG]

That’s crazy. You don’t have to be alone. And 61 is young. But, you might have to stop sabotaging yourself if you want a different life for yourself. And no offence, but my psychic gut says run away from the player. I think he’s made it clear to you what his game is. For meeting the right person, I’d suggest clearing out your connection with him. Get him out of your personal psychic space. This will help to create an opening for the type of person you deserve. You’re energy is going into him still and where is that getting you? If you are really serious about it, I’d highly consider the spiritual attraction classes on this website. Worked for me. If you don’t do something different, do you really think things will change on their own? Also, I keep seeing a cactus when I focus on you. Are you in the desert of something? Anyway, you have a good chance of meeting someone soon. You just need to focus on making it happen.

[EliseG]

I don’t like answering cheating questions personally, but I don’t get a sense she is honest with you either way on many different levels. I do get a lot of selfishness when I focus on her. You can try to make it work, but I’d watch out. Sometimes it’s better to be lonely than broken.

[EliseG]

I see a lot of stress around him about work and finances, which isn’t helping. But you have a whole lot invested in this. Feels like he cares and you have some leverage to work with, but something needs to change. I get a psychic sense you have a background in marketing, right? Hooray! What about using some of troubleshooting mindset to get things going in a better direction? You may need to do some work within yourself instead of blaming the circumstance and seeing yourself as a victim. Ouch. Otherwise, you might have the same issues in the next relationship. I suggest learning how to get better control over your emotions. That would be a great start. This way, you can start to influence the relationship instead of watching it fall apart in front of you. Also, have more fun. What about more walks on the beach, which is near you right?

[EliseG]

I don’t get a sense he’s committed or reliable, but some people are into that. I’m also getting some laziness and taking you for granted. Love isn’t enough, there has to commitment and a willingness. There are still good men out there. Maybe you could give it some more time?

[EliseG]

I sense a good connection between the two of you, but I do have concerns about you being bored. I still get a sense a part of you wants attention from other guys just a little too much. I’m just being honest. It feels like the biggest issue to me. Feels like it really a time for you to really be honest with who you are in life. I’m not saying you should leave, but if you stay, you will need to make some changes within yourself. Also, Dale wrote a good article: Is my current relationship right for me

[EliseG]

I’m not a sense he is really focused on relationships right now. There is something about a business venture which is most on his mind. Also, I keep hearing him say “why try to fix it if it’s not broken.” I don’t get a psychic sense he’s going to change on his own. But there is still hope. You can’t control him, but you can influence him. Part of it is he treats you the way he does because he feels like he can get away with it. He’s not even really clear about your desire to have more. You are looking at things being the way they are now, unless you start making changes. When I focus on him, it doesn’t feel like you can force him, but there is a chance you can make your connection stronger and encourage him to commit this way. But it will take time. Another thing is you have to build your self esteem. Eventually, he needs to realize you are strong and if doesn’t step up he’s going to lose you.

[EliseG]

Dark forces do exist, but I’m not getting a psychic sense this is causing your health issue. I could be wrong, but that’s what I’m getting. I see it more related to stress and not taking proper care of your body. Be careful about not taking responsibility for something you’ve created yourself. If you are a victim, then there is often little you can do. If you take responsibility, then you can do something to change it. I suggest looking into improving your diet and maybe taking some supplements. Also, more exercise. You may also need to see the advice of a doctor.

[EliseG]

I see him going over boundaries some recently, but not cheating. As far as the future, probably not, but you might influence this by your actions. Being suspicious all the time, especially without actual proof can will these things into existence if you aren’t careful. A good question is what can be done to strengthen your relationship so you aren’t so worried about cheating.

[EliseG]

I’m getting that she does err on the side of toxic drama, but I can’t say if you need to move. You need to decide this for yourself. I do get a sense she has an attachment to you, even if she talks badly at time. If you moved, she would be hurt and maybe a little vindictive.

Feels like a love/hate thing to me. She talks badly sometimes, but want you there for emotional support, friendship, and company. People are people. Better off eventually getting your own place, where you can escape from people stuff. There probably are very few perfect roommates.

To get your own place, I’m getting a psychic sense you have to get your income fixed. Seems like you aren’t making enough. I keep seeing something about the medical field. Ever thought about nursing or something similar?

[EliseG]

Hi Miranda,

My psychic gut is telling me he does care about you, but he does sometimes take you for granted. Also, I see some money issues in his life that are causing some stress, but it also seems he’s a little comfortable with not making enough. I keep seeing some type of fixation on gaming or something similar, which seems to consume him a little too much.

You have to decide if he’s right for you. He does care, but I question if is really willing to do what it takes to keep you happy. Will he fight for you? Another idea is to take steps to improve the relationship. Do everything YOU CAN to make it better, and if he seems to improve, you have your answer. I keep seeing you in management, maybe project management down the road, so make sure he doesn’t try to hold you back.

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