If you feel that you can no longer stay in an abusive marrige, there should be local support groups within your area where you could receive help. This decision should be made regardless of what you are hoping for from the other guy.

As for the other guy, if you rarely meet and he is away on business a good deal of the time and makes no attempt…[Read more]

If the guy you are with now won’t let you make your relationship public, it is because there is something that he feels he should hide. The other guy might be someone who you know of and just don’t know personally. He is liking you from afar. He considers you to be unavailable at this point.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums ida!

This is a good place to connect with like-minded individuals!

Sorry, but this guy seems to be playing games. First of all you are expected to keep your relationship with him under wraps. Secondly his female friend is telling you that she does have a relationship with him, which he denies. How much do you really know about him? You deserve happiness with someone who does not make your life so complicated.…[Read more]

What i sense is that this younger man has something to hide. You don’t meet often because he says he travels. How much do you really know about him? Do you really want to be with someone who fades in and out of a relationship? Even though your marriage has given you some hard times it is important not to confuse the two separate issues. Can…[Read more]

The economy is still very tight right now. It takes most people awhile to find a suitable job. Just keep trying to apply for every job that you feel you qualify for, or could qualify if the company will provide some on the job training. Once you secure that job it will open new doors for you. You will enjoy the independence that comes with…[Read more]

Kimberly,
it is so good that the girls will have supervised visits with their dad. He should not always expect you to bring them to him though. If he wants to see them he should be willing to travel as well. The economy is still very tight right now. It takes most people awhile to find a new job. I do think you will find something soon after…[Read more]

Vicky,
welcome to the forums!
Actually time in the spirit world is not the same as world time as we know it. That is why it really isn’t possible to give an accurate answer. If you continue to focus on positive thoughts of marriage and how you would like your future to be, you just might send vibes out there to the right person!
Best wishes,

Kellie,
welcome to the forums!
Actually, our future is not set in stone. There are different avenues available to each of us and a lot depends on the path you choose to take. With any type of corrective surgery it is important to obtain a second or even third opinion before proceeding. As for meeting someone, it is best to just let things…[Read more]

You might want to trust your instincts in this case — he seems to think it is all right to talk to other women while you are present. Yet he is jealous of the people you have contact with. He isn’t considering your feelings, only what he wants to do and what he wants you to do. You are your own person — you are not a puppet on a string! So…[Read more]

You do not deserve to be treated this way! Loving someone means totally accepting that person for who they are. He should not try to take away from your individuality. It is important to focus on what you truly want in life. You need to feel good about yourself. In order for you to be happy, you need total acceptance. So if you can tell him…[Read more]

Lydia,
welcome to the forums! We would really like to help you, but in order to do so we need a bit more information. It seems as if you are having doubts about your current relationship. In order to keep a relationship alive it takes work from both partners. It is about give and take and wanting to work things out. You must both really want…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!
It is important that you try to establish communication with him and try to resolve what went wrong in the relationship. A reconciliation would have to be something that you both want. If it was meant to happen, it will happen easily. If you try to push too hard this will lead to frustration. A calm attitude would be the…[Read more]

Love is accepting someone for who they are and not trying to change them. Perhaps this is one time when she isn’t being totally honest with you? If she cares for you she would want to work things out. If she feels it is time to move on then this should be discussed in a calm and rational manner. It is important that you take care of youself…[Read more]

Could you try to put your feelings in writing? You could give her a beautiful card with a note inside that expresses your feelings. Most people will read something even if they aren’t willing to listen or engage in conversation. There is also a possiblity that there might be someone else on the horizon for her. She might not want to admit this…[Read more]

It is important that you talk with her to discuss what went wrong in the relationship. There most likely are unresolved issues because one big fight would not be enough to prompt the separation. So try to contact her and set aside time to talk about your feelings. Let her know that you want to make things work because you truly love her and…[Read more]

There are some psychics who aren’t terribly expensive. Most need to charge a fee because they have to make a living. Helping people is their life’s work and they have to be able to make enough money to pay their own bills. There may be people out there who will offer to help you for free, but they may lack the necessary skills to do so. So if…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums gigi,

this is a great place to connect with like-minded people!

Jiji,
have you tried meditation? Please don’t be afraid of what you don’t understand at this point. The only thing that can harm you is fear itself. Learning to accept your “gift” is to understand that you might see things that others can’t, or you might see a vision of something before it actually happens. Just know that it can happen from…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!
It is extremely important that you consult with an attorney and obtain representation for these legal matters. She should not be allowed to keep your children from visiting with you. There is a chance she might back down if some counter charges are made against her.
Best wishes,