He is dragging you down– even while he is absent from your life. The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on with your life. If you can secure some kind of part time work to get you ahead financially, and then also take the courses that you need, this will get you going in the right direction.

Trying to contact him now would only lead…[Read more]

This guy is playing mind games– he is fearful of a long-term commitment. You deserve to feel good about yourself. You have some good work skills. Keep applying for what would be a good paying job. Do you really want to waste the negative energy that would be involved in a law suit? It could take years to even come to court.

Once you rebuild…[Read more]

Kimmi,
It is difficult, but you know that you need to keep applying for jobs that you qualify for, or could qualify for. You have some very good qualifications. I sense that you will have some meaningful opportunities by early fall.

Best wishes,
🙂

Actually, the future is not set in stone. A lot depends on the road you choose. If you were to get back together with your ex, the problems that you experienced in the past could resurface. What type of career have you chosen? You should do well in a field that you truly enjoy. Making sure that you have secure employment should be your next…[Read more]

Kimmi,
Welcome to the forums! We would be better able to help you if you could provide a bit more information about the direction you would like to take regarding your lifestyle.

The future isn’t set it stone. There are various different options available and a lot depends on the path you choose to take.

Best wishes,

🙂

It is often said that the best way to have a friend is to be one. You have tried very hard, but it seems that he only wants a friend when he needs one. From that perspective there is a chance that he might contact you in the future. Do you really want that kind of a one-sided friendship? You are a kind an caring person and there are many other…[Read more]

He knows that he acted like a jerk! This is kind of a guy thing — he most likely wishes he hadn’t acted the way he did, but he feels like the door is closed to communication. He would have to work up a lot of courage to call you after all this time. I still advise you against trying to contact him. I sense that he really doesn’t want to be in…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,
It is really good to hear from you. What you are setting you mind to do right now will actually be the best for right now. Once you secure that full time job you can then think about expanding your planning for future goals, etc. I sense that you will need to work at something more mundane for a short period of time in order to…[Read more]

Felicia,
Our future is not set in stone. There are various different paths available and a lot depends on which path you choose. There is a possibility that you could stay working within the educational system, but you could move to an administrative position. Many school districts have positions known as “program specialists”. Teachers…[Read more]

Felicia,
I sense that you are a very caring and giving person. Perhaps it is just the particular program that is getting you down? Would it be possible to transfer to a different grade level of students? You have the gift for teaching and a different setting could make a really big difference. The new school year is rapidly approaching, but…[Read more]

Could you possibly write him a letter? You would have the opportunity to express your feelings as well as attempt to repair this relationship. He would have the opportunity to think about this. You would also know that you have taken an important step to make contact. He might not want to discuss what has happened in the past, but he might be…[Read more]

So if you both work for the same company but work in different departments, there might not be a problem if you eventually get together. You might want to make sure there aren’t any underlying reasons for his hesitation to get to know you better. He could possibly be involved with someone right now. If this is the case, it most likely will not…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums!

It is great that you are taking the time to read through the topics on the website. There is so much valuable information here!

🙂

There appears to be an obvious attaction on both sides. Also, a bit of shyness. When it is obvious that you have both made eye contact, you might want to initiate a brief conversation? It is important to remember that the future is not set in stone. What you can do is try to get to know him and see where this might lead.

Best wishes,
🙂

Hey Christopher,

You have done nothing wrong in regard to the situation with Angela. I sense that she is feeling that she must first get a day job before she can focus further on her music. You could possibly be hearing from her after this happens.

It is hard for you right now because your heart is in working with music, but you also realize…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,
It is really great that you are getting into songwriting. Also that you reconnected with Angela. Sharing a love of music and having the desire to perform is a great way to become better acquainted. You definitely are taking the right approach by continuing to talk to her on Facebook and plan to get together to share your music.…[Read more]

Did everything seem to be ok with him the last time you talked with him? I am sensing that he is dealing with some issues that he doesn’t want to talk about. Much of this being that he doesn’t want to talk in detail with anyone right now. As a well meaning friend you want to help, but he might feel that you are wanting to become more involved.…[Read more]

I sense that he is ok– but has things on his mind and doesn’t want to talk right now. You might do well to not leave any more messages. Just wait to hear from him. It might take awhile, so just try to be patient.

Best wishes,
🙂

Hey Christopher,
The name “Wilson” might be part of an address or location. You should continue to follow your dreams, and you have good intuition about what would work for you. You knew that you shouldn’t take the word of someone who said he could get you a job. You knew that it wouldn’t be definite until a job was offered to you. Also that…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,
It is really great that you are checking out different opportunities and continuing to learn. Just wondering though, would your heart really be in IT for the long term? That is also a profession which might be hard to get into. There are recent graduates who majored in computer science who are having difficulty landing good…[Read more]