I did have a dream last night that she was found under a boat on land. However since I live at a lake, there are 100’s of boats in yards.

Yes, we do go driving and walking and call out for her. We walked property where there was a possible sighting

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Thank you so much! A lady is in the process of moving in and said a cat stood up and looked in her window a few nights ago. The odd thing is I bought furniture at an estate sale there so wondering if she recognizes scent. Also the old lady who died was a sweet and gentle soul I’ve heard. Got an ad in paper tomorrow, lots of folks watching, groups…[Read more]

No, Jim died in Paris.

Our habits do have an impact on when most of us die so eat well, don’t smoke or abuse drugs and alcohol and wear a seat belt. All of us will have good stuff and bad stuff in our lives too. I know this is not what you want to hear but it is honest.

1)forgive yourself. You know what you did wrong and how it hurt you and others. 2) tell him “I won’t ask for your forgiveness because I know I need to earn both your trust and forgiveness 3) be straight up with your loved one, do right by them and learn from your experience

I’m getting it’s a little too soon to tell. The turning point, which will define the future, hasn’t yet occurred. Try to meet. Focus on this. Until this happens, hard to say.

Don’t try, do it. I know it’s difficult. When you’re in the thick of it, you really have to monitor yourself like a warrior. It takes much strength and wisdom to act, instead of react. USE THAT TRAINING!

From now, but this isn’t cut into stone. I know it’s difficult, but please try to focus on the other things I mentioned.

I’m so sorry for you. I can only imagine how painful this must be. Yes, I sense he is really there. The two of you have an incredible bond. I see a cat (or small) dog around you that seems to feel your pain, and wants to comfort you, although it too could be in spirit. I’m sensing your husband is still coming to grips with the transition. Give it…[Read more]