He has to feel safe that your past truly is in the past. I sense he wants to be with you but wants to know he is safe with you.

Yes. Let him know you believe in him and love him. If you believed lie, ask for his forgiveness too.

So did you shop for hardware?

I see Jimmy as a person with a lot going on around him. I see it being overwhelming to him. Feels like a cyclone around him. First, step back, take a deep breath. Make a list and prioritize. Cross things off list each day.

Thank you Yelens. It is so hard.

Sounds like he is not committed

I would be careful about this one. You don’t want anyone creating false memories that you accept as truth. Our minds hold the key.

Hi Niq!

Loosing a child is the hardest thing any of us could ever face! When it is suicide it is even harder and we ask WHY!!!!!! a grief support group may be useful. Writing letters to your son may be another way to explore and release your grief. Danielle Steele wrote a book about her son Daniel’s suicide. I believe it was called My Bright and Shining…[Read more]

You can do it Daniel!

AA is a powerful tool for recovery too. Meditation and prayer if you believe in prayer is also powerful. It is a one day at a time proposition. If anxiety is too hard to get to meeting then you can order literature too. Often we have to treat ourselves on many levels to break through. Best wishes sent your way!

I am not a healer in the way some people are nor do I claim to be, but I would suggest that you find time to write out positive affirmations for your life. What do you want? Be specific!!!!! Maybe make a vision board of what you want in life. Spend time looking at it daily and put sticky notes saying positive affirmations about yourself in…[Read more]

She went out with us to a party on Sunday and we all had a good time but she is running silent.

I hope you are feeling better. Change involving a loved one is hard and depression makes it even harder. I see you growing and evolving despite the pain.

I think our purpose is to love our fellow man. That’s just my opinion. I also believe in a higher power and finding our higher power is very important but just my humble opinion on life.

I am happy to hear life is going better

I also am in a great deal of pain right now from rejection by my child, not s man. I spend time each day in study, meditation/prayer, started some new hobbies and make myself be productive even when I don’t want to be. It does help! I believe in a higher power too and believe I can either heal myself with His help and if in His will, the…[Read more]