@Blessed12
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Hi Blessed
I wish i was as advanced as you are. Im still trying to get it together. Nice to meet you<a href=”#18141″ bbp-url=”https://www.lifeleap.org/community/forums/topic/hi-everyone-8/#post-18141″ bbp-author=”Jenjen887_” class=”d4p-bbt-quote-link”
rel=”nofollow”>QuoteHi jenjen,
It’s nice to meet you! I totally understand what you mean by getting it together. Often I have to ask myself is this really happening? Lol. I dont about being advanced as of yet as I am starting to accept these things. Blessings Always!Hi! Would love to be friends and talk spiritual!
Great! I’m delighted
I will do the healing for you.
Let me know when it works – I am happy to heal you!!
I will start on basics now, is that ok?I am happy that you can provide the assistance that is needed in this case. I appreciate you and what you do for others.
Hi Sadbetty! I feel that underneath all of those terrible things you mentioned lies a beautiful person inside and out. Sometimes, we have feelings of depression and those feelings cause us to somehow feel ill inside of our bodies. We may have altered thoughts like being negative about things instead of positive about them. I’ve gone through this myself so I can understand how you feel. The first step to healing is asking for help. You’ve done a great job by holding out your hand and asking for help Good job!
Now I challenge you to take things one step further by doing this for 30 days.
1. Every morning thank God for it.
2. Get out of bed and stretch safely if you can.
3. Wash your face
4. Give yourself encouraging words
5. Dress in radient colors (Blue, Yellow, Green, Red)
6. Feed birds/squirrels (give back to the Universe)Hi Yvonne! It seems like you two have a lot in common first of all. (Year of Birth, Date of Birth etc.). Secondly, I feel that there’s a lot of emotional frustration going on within your relationship. When we hold on to bad feelings towards our significant other or others that are involved in the relationship it leads to negative vibes and in return those negative vibes turn into a downward spiral of relationship. No one wins in this. I would suggest talking these problems out. Try counseling and or treatment if need be but don’t sit around and wait for a solution to arise on its own you have to be a part of it. If you are not the problem be the solution. For more questions or concerns I’m here for you. God Bless you and your husband Pete and may he continue to bless your union.
I’m going through something similar this excellent advice. Thanks! jwalk415
I’m going through something similar this excellent advice. Thanks!
I hope the situation has resolved for you. If not, I believe the best thing you can do is to keep focused on what you can do for self improvement and how to best raise your kids given the situation. I also recommend reading books about reconciliation or making peace with heartbreak. One book I’ve been reading that I recommend is “I Thought We’d Never Speak Again” by Laura Davis. The important thing to remember in regards to reconciliation is that you might not fully reconcile with an estranged relationship but you can still reconcile your struggling feelings and be able to move on. That is definitely easier said than done and I’m struggling in that area myself but I hope you deal with struggles better.
First make sure you have yourself (Mind, Body,Soul) together before you try to get back with them. Many times we try to fix our relationship but fail to fix and or repair ourselves. We have to work on ourselves first and then we can seek restoration of the relationship. I have learned that changing the way that I view things also changes the way I approach and repair them. Focus your attention on yourself and heal yourself first because you are no good to him in your present condition. Good luck!
Hi! Just because your ex isn’t with you at the moment does not necessarily mean that they’re not meant to be with you. Sometimes, there are underlying situations like: (Miscommunication, Love, Passion and Desire) that cause problems such as
Cheating, Distrust and Dishonesty. Many times we see these problems arise early within our relationship and remain silent. This is the wrong thing to do. If you notice this happening try to get a handle on it right away. Past experiences have taught me to not look over problems arising within the relationship and to speak up.
I hope that this helps!!!
