I answered your most recent post a while ago. How are you doing lately?

When I focus on her, she is burned out and wants some peace. Because of her stressed out state of mind, it is hard to figure out if she will ever be open to being reunited. I can tell you this. If you bother her now, the answer will be no. She really, really wants to be left alone and will resent her wishes not being respected. Once she has had…[Read more]

My initial gut instinct is NO. Do you want to talk further about it?

Are you back together yet? If not, I see you have a good fighting chance of getting her back but you will have to work tirelessly on those things that were bothering her before or it wont last.

Here is what is more important. Why do you want to know if he is hiding something? He has violated your trust before and you are still with him. Because of this, he feels that, ultimately, trust issues do not bother you enough to make changes. I think he is wrong about you now. You have changed and become bitter. That whether or not he is hiding…[Read more]

Only you can answer that. What do you want to do with your life?

I focused on all of you. First of all, this woman is crazy but pathetic. She possesses no magical powers. But she is a danger to you as she is obsessed with him. Your boyfriend is the problem. I focused on him and, boy, what a selfish toxic mess. He deliberately led her on and lied to her making you the reason he cant be with her. He told her you…[Read more]

It has been a month since you posted this. Is your husband still gone?

No there is not a spiritual force sabotaging your relationship. That simply isnt true. I focused in on both of you separately and together. Shonda is willing to accept that as an excuse when she sees a challenge she can’t handle or gets distracted. Relationships have challenges. Both people have to rise above the challenges and excuses to make it work.

I focused in on your husband. I see a 40-50% chance of a reconciliation if you want it. You have to speak directly with him and he with you. Otherwise, work on being amicably divorced.

Tink. AJ is a player. he is very immature and dangerous. You have missed the red flags because you have been clouded with emotion. The flags are: (1)blocked for two weeks, (2)him being with the mother of his child and yes (3) that is a big deal and will always be a big deal. Four, he is dating someone else. Ignore this manchild and pursue an adult…[Read more]

Nice to meet you as well

With these drastic changes, #1 Has Kyle caused these changes or contributed to them in any way? and #2 what has Kyle done to keep your relationship strong during these drastic changes? If you explore the answers to these questions honestly and deeply, you will have your answer.

Let me ask you this. What is your ultimate goal with him? What is he NOT doing? Answer these questions and I will be able to help you.

It’s not easy Daniel. You need to, with all your might, tackle that alcohol problem head on. Your life depends on it. Nothing else in your life will be solved until you stop drinking. It may not have been the original root of your problems but today, it is the number one root of all your issues. There are no shortcuts or other scapegoats. This is…[Read more]

Do you have a specific question?

okay. Great. You see the reality of the situation. you are in a great position to move on. You will get over it. You have learned a lot from this. Be patient and let time heal. In the meantime, focus with all your might on your decent friends and social opportunities. I see a great healthy future for you.

When I focus on you, I see you are not ready yet for a relationship. Keep up your social life and surrounding yourself with decent friends and let these self esteem issues work themselves out. You may want to change jobs or add a jobs. What you’re doing now is not exactly enhancing your self esteem or opportunities for fulfillment. I think if you…[Read more]

Stop thinking. Just do it. Get up. Take a walk every day. Eat better, healthier food. Do what you have to do to get your inventions noticed. To get a job to make money as if your life depended on it–because it does; your life does depend on it. Do you want to identify your issues? Every morning before you start your day, journal all your…[Read more]

You have a gift but it will not work to help you or anyone else until you learn to control it. I would go to the Life Mastery Program and look at the course descriptions of the 20 lessons offered. I cannot think of another way, from my own personal experiences, that will teach you how to control what you see and how it affects you. When I focus…[Read more]