That is a very clear statement for him to say. It sounds to me like he is struggling financially and doesn’t know how to use words to tell you. Therefore, he has used an ultimatum to clarify his concerns with you. His time frame is likely for you to meet if you decide he does need your help financially. Perhaps the two of you need to have a…[Read more]

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Hi Syn, I get those feelings about things as well. You may want to talk to your husband to see if there is something he is dealing with. We tend to think of the worst possible outcome when it is usually something that we need to be aware of. I am thinking that it is not a split between you guys but maybe something he needs to get off his chest.