Hey Christopher,

I honestly don’t know for certain if Allie is your mystery girl, but I sense that things will start to materialize with someone who you may know, but not necessarily know well. If Allie is being responsive to talking with you, then a good start might be to invite her to coffee in a place where you can talk quietly.

Please don’t…[Read more]

Christopher,

You can do this! By telling yourself that it is important that you know where your significant belongings are and arranging them so everything has a place to be stored. It might be difficult when you are traveling from home to your apartment where you stay at school. Perhaps a packing list might be helpful when you plan to travel.…[Read more]

Christopher,

Major changes don’t necessarily have to happen on the exact date of your birthday–You might not feel any different but you are older, you have grown, you are more mature. You are learning something new every day! You are doing well in school, this is a very important goal for you.

If you continue to relax and take things in…[Read more]

Kimberely,

Glad to have you in the forums. We look forward to your presence – sharing, comments, questions, etc.

Christopher,

I know you have sent Krista e-mails before and she did not respond. This might not be the best way to communicate with her. Because you are sensitive and shy, you feel more comfortable doing this. I am not sure that Krista is really understanding this message. You said that you “indirectly” told her how you feel. When I focus in…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,
It is really good to hear from you again! First of all–I want to wish you an early very “Happy Birthday” — it really shows that you are aware within yourself of how much you have grown with your studies and your plans for the future. As far as the future relationship, if you just take it one day at a time and slowly let a…[Read more]

Hope,

There are many possibilities and places where you might meet that special someone. Do you attend a church social group regularly? Or volunteer for activities or charity fundraisers? If you participate in activities that you enjoy, that is a good way to meet someone who would share some of your same interests.

Please do not be…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,

Go for it! Invite Kat to coffee. When I focus on you I feel that something good for you is going to begin when you are sitting and talking with a young lady in a coffee hangout. Is there such a place close to where Kat works? The next time you are in the store and get a chance to speak with Kat, if she acts as if she would…[Read more]

Welcome to the forums! We look forward to your sharing/receiving.

Hello Hope!
I am a student of the Life Mastery Program and a bit new at giving advice, but it makes me feel so good that you requested my help!

I do believe that there is a special someone out there for you. It is important to remember that no one can possibly fulfill all of your needs, and I do sense that you realize this. You will know when…[Read more]

Kitty,
I am a student of the Life Mastery Program and I’m a bit new at giving advice, but this is what I see happening–I think you have already answered a large part of your question. You have been seeing this man for a couple of months and are starting to be aware of some issues which would not be acceptable for the long term. Since he is not…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,

When I focus on you with Connor, I see you as the “big brother” in this friendship. You are focusing on the future and want to make wise decisions. Connor might be going thru a phase that even he does not understand. It is only natural that you want to help your friend. I feel that you will continue to be friends, but you…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,

Please don’t worry–you said that school is going all right. You are studying in an area in which you have an interest. When I focus on you, I sense the rewards of your hard work will shine through. You might not experience this totally for a couple of years, possibly after you graduate. In the meantime, there is no reason…[Read more]

Christopher,

Sometimes if a girl is particularly shy she might not know how to react to an e-mail suggesting that you might like to hang out. Also, you don’t know how often she reads her e-mail, or even if she has another e-mail address that she uses more frequently. Some people are cautious and will not even open an e-mail unless they…[Read more]

Christopher,

Did Krista give you her e-mail address, and are you sure it is current? Some people don’t read their messages on a daily basis. When she does get the message, because she is reserved and a bit shy, she might not respond immediately. If you don’t receive a reply, you will most likely see her at the beginning of the week. You could…[Read more]

It is easier said than done, but right now you need to wait. You are not ready to make any major decisions, and it is difficult to move on. Please don’t forget about contacting an attorney. You are going to need financial assistance and a custody arrangement for your son. These things work much better when the rules are put in place and…[Read more]

Christopher,
I know you have been friends with Shannon for a long time now. She seems to fade in and out, and it seems to have much to do with what is going on in her life at the time. While it is important to sustain longtime friendships, it is also important to get to know other people. Keep up the friendship with Shannon, but don’t be…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,

So glad to hear that the school year has started out well for you. As I focus on Sami, I sense that she has another interest right now. However, that interest might not last for too very long.

It is important to remember that our future is not etched in stone. There are various different paths that we can choose to venture…[Read more]

Hey Christopher,
I sense that Sami and Hannah have both been very busy this summer, perhaps travelling. This is the time when friends can’t check their e-mail on a daily basis. Often times we plan more than our schedules will permit and we just can’t get everyone and everything in. Please stop thinking that this has anything to do with what you…[Read more]

What do you want to bet that when he asks to move back in with his parents that he won’t tell them the whole story? They are eventually going to find out and he is going to have to listen to their opinions on all of this.

He is going to have to see for himself that the girl is not right for him, or to be around your son. That is why it is…[Read more]