It seems that things are essentially the same as they were the last time you posted this question. Do you both want to be in a relationship for the long term? If you both don’t have that same goal things might not seem to be stable. It is important to discuss how you both feel about things to determine if you feel you can be together for the…[Read more]

You might want to contact the organization that handles her loans and explain the situation. When you co-sign on a loan it means that you agree to make the payments in the event that she can’t do it. It is a legally binding contract. You wouldn’t want to hurt your credit at such a young age. It is surprising that she was even granted a loan…[Read more]

You might do well to rely on past experience when it comes to looking for work. If you have had some experience in a certain field that would be a plus. Your ex-husband should be providing some financial support for the kids. It really isn’t a good idea to date someone in the workplace. There is a chance that you could meet someone through…[Read more]

You don’t need to quit being her friend, but you need to remain firm about the directive you have given her about finding other living arrangements. Unless you have something in writing, you might have a difficult time getting her to repay the money that she owes you. You need to offer continuous reminders until (if) she does. As for being a…[Read more]

You will start to rebuild you confidence as soon as you start working again. You are at loose ends right now. Your kids need you so you must try to remain positive for them. When you start working and get your family into a routine, you are likely to meet new people. You really don’t need to go out of your way to meet someone new, it should…[Read more]

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Sorry about your current circumstances — often times law suits are settled for less than the requested amount. You should get something, but don’t count on it to be a long term solution. Hopefully your husband will be able to return to some kind of work. If you continue to apply for jobs for which you qualify or could…[Read more]

I sense that you have worked hard all of your life. Also what you are experiencing right now is something that you basically didn’t have much control over. Perhaps a financial counselor could help you? This would be someone with professional insight into how certain debts could be consolidated or reduced.

Best wishes,

The time is now — if you let her know that you really want to talk to her and work things out. You will both feel so much better.

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I sense that your question is actually more about your relationship with your sister? You do want to reconcile your differences. There may be some changes pending in her life, but the details are not clear. You might feel much better if you make an attempt to contact her.

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Right now you are doing the very best thing by just agreeing to be friends. He obviously trusts you and cares for you, but his fear of commitment is getting in the way. So continue to be friends and he may eventually really start to miss what the two of you had together. He should come to pick up his dog, but in any…[Read more]

You could start now by calling or writing to her. Let her know that you want to put the past behind you. You will both feel much better and look forward to being together again.

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums tiffany,
you could start by contacting him and ask if you can both meet to discuss what went wrong in your relationship. If he is willing and adjustments can be made, that would be the first step toward a reconciliation. It would be important to try to make sure that the problems that existed before don’t resurface.

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This is going to be difficult, but you must continue to ask her every day what she is doing to find other living arrangements. You need to tell her that you can no longer accommodate her needs and she must be relocated by the deadline. You could suggest that you will have to take legal action if she doesn’t. This will put a damper on your…[Read more]

You might have to give her a deadline to find other living arrangements. You need to tell her that this can’t continue on an indefinite basis. You might have a problem getting her to repay the money. Does she thoroughly understand that this is a loan? You would do well not to loan her any more money. She should have family to turn to in her…[Read more]

There is a possiblity that you might meet someone in a church environment, or in a volunteer organization. You would be getting to know this person on a casual friendly like basis first. Then you might be pleasantly surprised when it will turn into something more. Just take things slow, get involved in things that you enjoy, and be happy!

Best wishes,

Welcome to the forums britny!

You are young and ambitious and wondering what the future holds for you. It would be much easier to help you if you could ask a specific question, and just one question at a time. You may receive several different responses from other forum members.

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I sense that he might be frightened of his feelings for you. He really does like you, but he might not be ready to commit to any kind of relationship. He is thinking that he wants the companionship, but he isn’t willing to invest the time. If you should get together with him there is a chance he could back away again.…[Read more]

Wow — this has become a sticky situation! Are you able to observe her spending habits? You might want to consider setting up a repayment plan and let her know that you have been willing to help her, but can’t continue to do so indefinitely.

She should be able to find some kind of a job to help with her college expenses and living…[Read more]

Sorry things are not going well for you right now. If you can take this time to reflect on what you really want to do for yourself this will be a start. If you can maintain and project a positive outlook when you are out and about, you will attract those type of individuals. You will be happy again. Someone is likely to come to you, so you…[Read more]

At the present time it seems that you are unsure of what qualities you are looking for in a potential suitor. It might be better to think about that aspect of a relationship before you become involved with someone too quickly. Don’t rush to be in a relationship — you will be getting to know someone new, but don’t count on being in a…[Read more]