You need to do what is best for yourself and your children. Do you have family who could help you? There are also community support groups that are equipped to help women deal with these types of situations.
Once you are able to develop a plan for yourself and your children, it would be in your best interest to seek legal advice. In order to live your life freely, you will need to be strong. If you take action to free yourself from this abusive behavior, it will be a new start.
The very best of luck to you with your situation. Take care!
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