My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot lately. It’s bringing us both down and I’m not sure what I should do. I want to make this work between us because I have never felt this kind of connection with anyone before. We are connected in every way…but for some reason, lately, both of us have been in a very bad head space. He says I don’t treat him the way that he deserves and that I’m cold to him…I try very hard to see it from his side and I take action to change my behaviors. I want him to see things from my perspective, as well but I don’t think he tries in the same way (as far as that goes) and it makes me want to treat him the same. How can I bring that beauty back? What should I do?