I have been seeing someone for a little over a year. It has been off and on a couple times due to fighting or one of us just not being there. We tend to blame each other. I truly love this person but fear he isn’t in it as much as me. He always says if he didn’t want to be here he wouldn’t but he pulls away. We aren’t intimate like we used to be. He says I need to be patient. But my feeling is if you care and love someone what are you waiting for. I just wish I knew if I was wasting my time. I want to be with someone who truly loves me and sees a future with me. Any help?