I’m sensing it will take some time – probably months at least. First, you’ve got to create this “happiness” yourself, from the inside out. Work on your self awareness and learn to control your thoughts and emotions – see Life Mastery Program on this site. Strengthen yourself from the inside out. Get yourself to where you are happy, with or without a new relationship. Once you do the hard work and reach this place within yourself, I’m getting a sense the right person will show. Otherwise, if you go out and try to find someone else to make you happy, you are setting yourself up for disaster.