I have recently separated from an 18 year relationship (of which married 8 years) I made the mistake of cheating and hid it because of my guilt. We both have problems communicating. I have a positive outlook that 2nd chances do exist but unsure if he is willing because of another female entered the picture before we even decided to separate. Is there going to be a 2nd chance given or am I to grieve the loss of my partner?