I keep seeing this manager, business owner thing around him. Anyway, I get a sense you have a good chance at making it work, but you will have to do things differently. First, it might help to drop the victim thing. I keep seeing you throwing some punches in that relationship. As we all do, you have some serious patterns that are showing up in the relationship roller coaster. As you make changes within yourself, who you are in the relationship will change, and is this changes, the relationship itself will change. Maybe hold off on making any decisions right away and do some good-old work on yourself from the inside out. If you don’t know how to accomplish this on your own, there are some great tools right here on this site. So I’m getting the relationship is salvageable, but it will only work if major changes occur, and those changes will likely have to start with you