should i ask him out?

[MNLG86]

i don’t know whether i should ask the boy i am in love with out or not, its not out of fear of rejection (i am used to that) but i am not very confident and i do believe i am not good enough for anyone, especially him.

[FionaM]

I would forget about him and do some work on yourself first. You need a serious self-esteem adjustment before you even think about getting in a relationship. I don’t see you doing much to really take care of yourself. Get involved in something you like to do and get good in it. My psychic sense is that exercise would be good for you. This will help build your confidence. Start reading some personal growth books. You can get these easily at a bookstore or library. Learn how to get control over your emotions and thinking and stop playing the victim role. You are a powerful person and you just need to tap into that power. Once you aren’t so wounded, the I would think about relationships.

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